beating around the bush, its what it always is |
beating around the bush, its what it always is |
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te quiero ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 ![]() |
i have to take my frustration out somewhere. might as well be here.
basically i like this guy, and he keeps hinting that he likes me. and then he goes on to tell me about this incredible date he had the other day, and just to get back i tell him about the incredible guy that i have a humongous crush on (which i don't... i basically drag back old crushes and rub it in his face). and so it goes back and forth and back and forth. and then... we were joking around and so i asked him out (b/c it was a joke... inside joke with someone else. really weird, but yeah). and he's like "OF COURSE I WANNA GO OUT WITH YOU" (but it was a joke... see?) and then we're like laughing about it and inside i'm thinking "but... i'm serious". and i have no clue what he's thinking. and i really wanna say something, but i dont wanna ruin this incredible friendship that we have. and so its all frustrating. idk if that made sense... hey, it's 1am give me a break. |
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this is tricky
cuz you like him but dont wana ruin the friendship i go through this a lot i think the best thing i can say is to figure out if it's worth it to risk the friendship but then again if you think he likes you he may be thinking himself the same thing which is prolly why none of you guys hav said you liked each other, asked each other out, etc. etc. i think that you should stop saying ur liking or crushing on another guy because if u keep saying that he'll get the wrong impression and just start thinking that you dont feel the same way as him (if he likes you..etc.) and who knows maybe he's saying he went on dates to make you jealous cuz then again ur going back and forth all i can say be a friend for now and see wat goes on further ehh sorry if you got kinda confused on the advice : / |
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