relationship with my dad, :[ :[ Options

[Mizz Rizza]

I don't have a very close relationship with my dad. The thing is, my parents are divorced but still live in the same house. yeah it's weird but thats jus how it is. but newayz, i feel so much closer to my mom then my dad. i dont remember a time when i said "i love you" to him. if you're wondering why this is, it's prolly because when we used to live in the phillipines (i was like very little) i still remember when he used to treat me badly...and the way he treated my mom wasnt very good either...and the rest of my family such as brother and sisters...but never once has he said sorry for all the things he's done...i know that it's wrong that he hasnt said sorry or whatever but i really do just wanna put the past behind us....i dont wanna give you a story of my life...i guess it just breaks my heart knowing that i dont feel like a hav a dad...it's hard for me to talk to him about it...to talk about wat happened in the past...but it also makes me sad knowing that my bros and sis dont like him either...even though i know they try to make the effort to just put the past behind them...i guess i know that he feels all alone and he barely ever gets to spend time with me and my brothers and sisters...i know that you guys will say for me to talk to him...but it's just really hard for me to...and i know it's hard for him to talk to us too....so i guess i really dont know wat to do...



i dont want you guys to say im stupid for posting this and jus tell me to talk to him
i really jus dont need that rite now
so if ur gonna say something mean like that
i'd jus rather you not say anything at all

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

^^ Haha my friend is also named Rizza from the phillipines! She's sooo cool...but that's not part of the topic.

I have the same relationship with my dad except that my parents did not divorce and we stil live together. When I was younger, he always got upset over the stupidest things and always would hurt me or my brother or my mom and he has stopped but I still can't and refuse to talk to him. At times I try to communicate with him, but I can't bring myself up to talk to him because I just remember every little thing that he has done to humiliate me and just make me feel the way I do now. That didn't help much did it...Maybe you should try doing something you both like?