Abusive Boyfriends |
 Nov 29 2004, 04:54 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Okay, I have this older boyfriend who's in the military (he's about 6'3, musuclar) and lately he's been getting really violent. He'll have these odd anger outbursts and recently, we got into a huge fight and he pushed me down a flight of stairs. I broke my arm.
He's had a past of violent behavior when he was 16 or 17 (he's in his early 20s now) and he's taking it out on me. This is my longest relationship ever (about 3 years) and I think I love him. Atleast I thought I did. I really don't want to end it, but my parents are getting suspicious of my injuries. I managed to tell them that I tripped down the stairs in my highschool. But when he punched me in my face, I had a bruise on my cheek, my parents didn't believe me when I insisted I got hit with a soccer ball during PE. But he says he loves me and he gets so upset after all the fighting stops. I'm just really confused. So what do I do? I really don't want to end it, but I feel that I have no choice... |
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Jul 6 2005, 06:29 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,730 |
I think that even though u say u love him and u prolly do that u should get away from him..if hes hittin u like that now jus think about if u got married..he will think he owns u and hit u more...
...jus ma thoughts about it...my old bf was like that too until i kicked his ass... |
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i heart john Abusive Boyfriends Nov 29 2004, 04:54 PM
_sarcastic_ i think you should end it, i mean you should befor... Nov 29 2004, 05:34 PM miss_asian i think u should before u get beat up really badly... Nov 29 2004, 05:47 PM MyVermilionPlague End it.
You broke your arm?
Wow.
It could get ugly... Nov 29 2004, 06:04 PM angel-roh well if you dont want to get beaten by your boyfri... Nov 29 2004, 06:05 PM bigpoppaproppy he's a piece of sh*t excuse for a human being ... Nov 29 2004, 06:07 PM x____duckii Talk to him. If he continues, end it (unless you w... Nov 29 2004, 06:10 PM pikimoo He's not like really crazy in love with you, i... Nov 29 2004, 06:20 PM Nicolatofu Maybe it was only a broken arm this time, but trus... Nov 29 2004, 06:28 PM mouse_3k QUOTESo what do I do? I really don't want to e... Nov 29 2004, 06:29 PM aznhunnie6o1 well.. this is a toughfy cause u think you love hi... Nov 29 2004, 06:50 PM yummy_delight you should definitely end it. i don't see why ... Nov 29 2004, 06:54 PM i heart john QUOTE(aznhunnie6o1 @ Nov 29 2004, 6:50 PM)but... Nov 29 2004, 08:35 PM yummy_delight QUOTE([f)eleeza,Nov 29 2004, 8:35 PM] he alre... Nov 29 2004, 08:38 PM EyeOfTheTiger5 Raped and beaten up, get out of there! If he ... Nov 29 2004, 08:46 PM Shortiiex you really do have no choice.....but becareful whe... Nov 29 2004, 10:04 PM blowpops69 break up with him now. and request for the mafia t... Nov 29 2004, 10:31 PM jooleeah holy crap....he's beaten you AND raped you? an... Nov 29 2004, 10:45 PM jecissa You have grown attached to him, and it is hard for... Nov 29 2004, 11:00 PM helllla jankyyyy is this a joke? How can you take this? I know you ... Nov 29 2004, 11:39 PM LiLaZnGirL122 uhh i noe u love him but break up with him hes not... Nov 30 2004, 02:14 AM aznangel4eva it mite be possible that he loves you do, n' i... Nov 30 2004, 03:18 AM MyChemicalRomance. if he really loved you, he wouldn't abuse you.... Nov 30 2004, 04:03 AM bigpoppaproppy QUOTE(aznangel4eva @ Nov 30 2004, 3:18 AM)it ... Nov 30 2004, 04:03 AM i heart john I'm still kind of confused. Every time he hits... Nov 30 2004, 07:59 PM muffin dude 292 Talk to him to see what is wrong. But if he does h... Nov 30 2004, 08:23 PM LiNHy POO get him some help! an anger management class i... Nov 30 2004, 08:51 PM airam http://www.scarleteen.com/crisis/articles.html
(oo... Nov 30 2004, 08:53 PM x Wolf Tearz x You sure this guy doesnt have any metal problems??... Nov 30 2004, 09:25 PM jooleeah QUOTEI'm still kind of confused. Every time he... Dec 2 2004, 05:29 PM mSz_dOrk_anGeL Leave him.
Now.
I've been there, done that.
If... Dec 2 2004, 05:44 PM imadorkabledxd you need to break it off with him now! if he l... Dec 3 2004, 03:51 PM mirage this relationship is not worth it... read this boo... Dec 3 2004, 04:17 PM lyin_in_wait what will happen if he gets really angry and....we... Dec 3 2004, 06:57 PM bigpoppaproppy QUOTE(jooleeah @ Dec 2 2004, 5:29 PM)Maybe he... Dec 3 2004, 09:19 PM KingdomHeartsFan I would end it. Your friends and ur parents don... Dec 3 2004, 10:51 PM laur3nw I seriously think you should end it even though he... Dec 3 2004, 11:13 PM teeners__15 end it now.
doenst matter if he regrets it after ... Dec 3 2004, 11:52 PM feejayjay I think you need to get out of there, girlfriend. ... Dec 4 2004, 12:03 AM alone in the world ew ... wth is wrong with him. report him if i e... Dec 4 2004, 12:05 AM xSWEETxCANDiix hm...talk to him about it first...but if he does i... Dec 4 2004, 12:25 AM eli5e beat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u doing... Dec 4 2004, 12:29 AM DaToNeViEtBoI916 END IT...NOW
he might get all depressed and what ... Dec 4 2004, 12:36 AM angel_revelation wow... you really shouldn't take that from him... Dec 4 2004, 01:03 AM xheartbreaker Doesn't he have enough violence in his life al... Dec 4 2004, 05:28 AM i heart john QUOTEbeat the shit out of himm ...wat the f.cuk u ... Dec 30 2004, 05:45 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS i think he loves you, seriously, like loves you de... Dec 30 2004, 05:58 PM BEBEx_iNFAM0USS o yea, and i think you should tell your parents. S... Dec 30 2004, 06:00 PM inlonelinessidie 1. He might be bipolar.
2. I know you love him bu... Dec 30 2004, 06:03 PM xSqueekyMexicanx you should end it and tell the police cuz i think ... Dec 30 2004, 06:47 PM LEDO_D0RKETTE i think you should end it. later on, you will get ... Dec 30 2004, 08:13 PM cmgchica717 no man should ever ever lay his hands on you. Lea... Dec 30 2004, 09:00 PM lulu424 u suck Dec 31 2004, 01:32 AM xtransatlanticismx didn't you ever have those sessions in middle ... Dec 31 2004, 05:52 PM swtlillaugher you should seriously end it. forget about him. if ... Jan 24 2005, 08:38 PM lil_gymnast6 END IT May 9 2005, 05:20 PM tchotchke ... this was a while ago. Are you still with him? May 10 2005, 09:21 PM angelshortipnai gah, i REALLY think u should end it..i mean, it CA... May 10 2005, 09:48 PM xoxvietbabyy I think you should end it, but who knows what he... May 11 2005, 01:33 AM yukichan this topic was started a while ago..hu brought thi... May 11 2005, 01:39 AM x0xpaulax0x about every persons reply sucked!!
n... May 11 2005, 04:47 PM literemix24 I think that you guys should talk this over, if th... May 12 2005, 07:31 PM nothingless you have a baby. you don't want someone like h... May 13 2005, 04:43 PM iiloveyou637 iii suggest you end it because he hurts you even m... Jul 1 2005, 06:00 PM Fallen Fairy no you shouldn't take that from him or from an... Jul 1 2005, 06:05 PM pixamelon .. Jul 1 2005, 07:56 PM
CloudNine QUOTE(pixamelon @ Jul 1 2005, 6:56 PM)...have... Jul 2 2005, 05:17 PM sheepy well.. it doesnt matter if you love him, becus if ... Jul 1 2005, 08:16 PM enyceXaddiction doesnt this belong in the relationship section? Jul 1 2005, 08:56 PM taggy505 run away and take ur daughter go distant and then ... Jul 1 2005, 09:27 PM WickedDreamer A bruise can be covered with foundation and a brok... Jul 2 2005, 01:28 AM CloudNine Okay. First off I've been in a similar situati... Jul 2 2005, 05:00 PM anubis once or twice is forgivable--but multiple times--y... Jul 2 2005, 05:21 PM i heart john Who brought this topic back?
Well, most of you k... Jul 2 2005, 05:46 PM rx_azngirl End it fast! And give him some help. Jul 2 2005, 10:34 PM Mizz Rizza i dont get why you still love him
he abuses you
an... Jul 5 2005, 01:32 PM FailedSense hmm.
I have anger problems, myself.
I have never... Jul 5 2005, 01:47 PM x0hAyLiE0x hun u shoudnt be in a relationship like dat...he g... Jul 5 2005, 01:49 PM Kristinaa I really dont think that's HEALTHY for you eit... Jul 5 2005, 02:02 PM PinkTrash maybe his problem doesnt have to do with the relat... Jul 5 2005, 04:02 PM xxaznxgurlxx I think you should don't go with him. If you a... Jul 6 2005, 02:09 AM 3ssx end it. dont risk your safety. one day something r... Jul 6 2005, 03:25 PM xaznxehgix you should definately end it. You can't stay ... Jul 6 2005, 03:28 PM Smilessss i think yoo should end it like wat otha says...dis... Jul 6 2005, 06:17 PM |
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