how life makes things complicated, for family Options

[laxumaster8]

when i was a baby, my dad was killed... now, being older, it's hard to look back and recall things about him, not knowing anything about him...and even with supporting people and friends and a good life, i still cant help but think about what it would have been like if something in the past had been different. you think that adults are capable of handling things [wiith some exceptions] and handle their emotions, but deep inside, do you ever wonder if they still feel like you do? today, we might think as younger people that we have tough lives. but if our parents actually shared all of their feelings and hardships with us, that it might be almost the same as ours?

[megan_x3]

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad.

Actually, I share some same thoughts. My Dad could've nearly been killed by some family reasons. It wasn't the nicest thing I've heard about it, but it was some of the things that I really hate about my Dad side of the family. I believe it's true that adults or parent hide their thoughts and feelings away from their children. It may be hard to lose someone in the past when you were so little, when you don't even know anything about them, since you were so little. Yes, indeed I think its really hard. Things may be the same or different whether your dad is here or not. Maybe you get a little extra help from your Dad, besides your Mom. Adults and kids, I believe share the same emotions. Adults are just little, well, shy ( in my own opinion ) because they're adults. They don't cry out loud like we kids do. We share the same emotions.. For an example, when our friends ditches us, when you get a broken heart from your ex. All those things are something that all people in the world experience throughout the whole entire life. I hope my opinion helps you, throughout your problems.