Love Help, can you forget someone your in love with |
Love Help, can you forget someone your in love with |
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If you can take the time to read this and reply then thank you. This is pretty cheesy... but bear with me here.
About five months ago I met this guy from a new school I started at. I swear it was love at first sight. We exchanged phone numbers after awhile and began hanging out. About 2 days after we started hanging out we found out that we were both really into each other. I was honestly on cloud 9. You know those butterflies you got when you were little when you thought about that cute crush in grade school. Well... i had those...for the first time in 5 years. I'm pretty sure it was love. No guy ever stared at me the way he did. I was pretty sure he felt the same way. Anyways... I slept with him about 2 weeks after we were together. I think i might'ov rushed into it but i really liked him. After that we were pretty shy with each other at school. We didn't really talk much and our phone conversations were getting shorter and we didn't hang out. I called him a few times to hang out but he was always busy. I called him a few times a week and he kept saying "call back tomorrow i gotta work..." or "i'm out with my buddies". Heres the heartbreaker.... when i called one day to ask him to hang out he said "Oh i can't today I gotta go meet my girlfriend's dad"... i knew we weren't actually going out... but ...i thought the feelings were mutual and that broke me in 2. I told him I wasn't gonna call anymore and i'd see him around. Its been 4 months since we last talked. i haven't seen him or heard from him. But i miss him so much. I didn't know him well but to this day i still have butterflies... and i'm pretty sure its love. I can't forget the way he looked at me and how we connected so amazingly. I know i was probably used for sex. My question is.... how do you get over someone your in love with? |
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*Azarel* |
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You're not in love; being in love is a reciprocal experience. Don't kid youself, move on, forget he ever existed. Easier said than done. But it's not that much more difficult than a simple rejection, because that's pretty much all it is. Rejection. Stop being naive. Things like this happen. Don't expect a fairytale ending. Those don't exist. All you can do is welcome it when you experience it, and hold onto it as tightly as you can.
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*anubis* |
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 4 2005, 5:03 AM) Stop being naive. Things like this happen. Don't expect a fairytale ending. Those don't exist. All you can do is welcome it when you experience it, and hold onto it as tightly as you can. a little harsh, don't you think? she's just asking for a little advice. not to be chewed up and spit out. jesus christ. ![]() have a little heart. |
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