what should i do Options

[darksandz93]

See..... I like this girl and this other due likes the same girl.... The girl had a pool party and other day and didn't invite me but she invited the other dude..... So i asked her why she didn't invite me..She said" My dad would've started asking you questions." OK.... The other dude told her he's totally obsessed with her. She told me that she has way, way more feelings for me than him... What should I do?

A) Beat the living out of the guy
B) Deal with it and ask her to be my girlfriend
C) Give up..........

[*anubis*]

dude. based on this girl's actions, sounds like shes totally playing you two. there must have been more than just "my dad would've started asking questions" for not inviting you.

i think that she's telling BOTH of you that she likes either one of you, to make it seem favorable without her losing the interest from either one of you.

and at her pool party, she obviously didn't want the two of you with her at the same time. because then you would both see that she's playing you both.

sorry for being critical but i think that's how it is. it's not the other guy's fault. not at all.

if she always prevents being with you two at the same time, then she's obviously playing a game by trying to have the both of you at the same time. telling both you and him that she likes you/him more than the other.

if i were you, i'd forget her.

if you tried plan B and asked her out, it depends on what her intentions are. it'll definitely put her in a shitty situation though.

she might say yes and still continue to take interest in him, regardless of your new relationship, or say no and give you some shitty-ass excuse like the one before, and still try to persuade you she likes you better.

best thing i'd suggest is not GIVING UP. but finding someone who will treat you as an individual. you and ONLY you.