friend troublee, pleasse help, i need advice asap :[ Options

[xromanticKISS]

all right well my friend and i are like best friends but like almost everytime she ditches me for her friend laura and like she ditched me last minute because we were going to see the movies so i was like allright whatever, i`ll watch a movie with my sister. then she IMs me saying "whats with the attitude, your sucha female dog* and then i say "um i dont have an attitude" and then she said "omgg i`m gonna tell joey what you told me" [joey is a kid i like] and then she keeps saying i`m a "female dog*" and saying "ew your so cool"[sarcasm] and sayng "omggz your sucha "female dog" and i never started with her.. what should i do? should i still be friends with her? like i confronted her and everything except she said "gosh, you used to be sucha nice person" and does she expect me to not stand up for myself when she calls me a female dog*?

* = words changed to appropriate setting

btw, thanks to the people who give or is about to give me the advice<33

[laxumaster8]

i hope my advie helps. well, u said u were 'best' friends. think about this: do you think she really thinks of you as a 'best' friend also? if she ditches you, you should just stop hanging out w/ her. if she really wants to be a friend, then she will do what she thinks is right. if you tell her that she ditches you, and she argues and then gets mad, then she obviously doesn't know herself enough. don't go easy or 'nice' on her. it seems like it's your choice. u should decide whether you want to stay friends or not.