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friend troublee, pleasse help, i need advice asap :[
xromanticKISS
post Jul 3 2005, 10:11 PM
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all right well my friend and i are like best friends but like almost everytime she ditches me for her friend laura and like she ditched me last minute because we were going to see the movies so i was like allright whatever, i`ll watch a movie with my sister. then she IMs me saying "whats with the attitude, your sucha female dog* and then i say "um i dont have an attitude" and then she said "omgg i`m gonna tell joey what you told me" [joey is a kid i like] and then she keeps saying i`m a "female dog*" and saying "ew your so cool"[sarcasm] and sayng "omggz your sucha "female dog" and i never started with her.. what should i do? should i still be friends with her? like i confronted her and everything except she said "gosh, you used to be sucha nice person" and does she expect me to not stand up for myself when she calls me a female dog*?

* = words changed to appropriate setting

btw, thanks to the people who give or is about to give me the advice<33
 
 
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CrazayChristian
post Jul 4 2005, 12:12 AM
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Confront, then action.

You confronted, now for action. This female dog* has to understand that you're a force to be reckoned with. That you won't roll over and take this.

Trust me, I've been walked on so much because I'm a "nice guy" and I've been guilted into things.

You can still be nice and forceful at the same time. Just don't fight back like she does. Be NICE to her, but almost OVERLY nice to her. THis way, she can't tell Joey any of the "mean things" you did. And, she might ease up.
 

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