i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness Options

[takeapolaroid__x]

this may sound wierd, but whenever i look into a mirror, i see PURE ugliness. i hate everything about my body. i ALWAYS have bags under my eyes and i have huuuugely fat thighs and i feel like if i wear shorts or skirts (even though i do...) everyone will see my huge fat ugly thighs wobbling about like jello on a vibrator.

is there any way you can help me?

[dragyn]

I agree with the idea that you look in the mirror a lot, and you get used to what you see. Try doing something new, like putting your hair up different, or doing your makeup different. Just once. You don't even have to be going anywhere. When you change one little thing it will make you see several things differently.

Also: I think big legs are attractive in a way. I don't mean having cellulite hanging off you, but size alone is nothing to complain about. I have really big thighs, and I adore them. People tell me I have sexy legs all the time. Just make sure they're in good shape, and it doesn't matter how big they are.

I also think it's a good suggestion to write down your good qualities. Try to think about each and every facet of your body individually. Divide and conquer, right?

You might want to do the same thing with your personality traits. Feeling good about the kind of person you are reflects on the way you feel about your appearance. It sounds weird, but it's true.