seriously about to cry, about to loose someone i luv Options

[sweetest-emotion]

so here's my story, i'll try to sum it up for you, it will get confusing so here goes:
my "boyfriend" and i were going out for a month. the first weeks were AMAZING. i've never felt so loved and wnated by anyone else in my life, and i actually was happy for once. i got those butterflies in my stomach and we would talk on the phone for 3 hours at a time. then came the zoo...
i was goin to the zoo with my best friend and her bf, who was my bf's best friend, but my boyfriend backed out cuz he "didn't want to deal with them", it hurt, and i felt left hanging. i told him and he just shurgged it off. it was wierd after that, we didn't seem to have the kind of hottness we had b4. he barely touched me or embraced me like he did before. even less then before we were going out! so i confronted him and here's the excuse he gave me...
he said that he wasn't all comfortable with the title of "boyfriend". yea i'm confused too. he said that he's wanted a serious relationship with someone for so long, that when it was finally in front of him, he jumped the gun without really thinking things through. he's told me he likes me soo much (yea borderline love), and that he still cares. it hurt me soo much, cuz now i'm thinking back to all of those times he's said that i'm beuatiful, he'll never let me go, i'm amazing, u kno all the stuff that really made me feel special. now, i think those were for nothing. he was so amazed that so many guys i've liked have only liked me back as a friend, and he said that he could never be that ass. well....he's starting to become one.
now its so weird around him. he said that he was afriad to loose me completely and that he never wants to see us sperated, i guess friendship-wise. it just SUX so much that i still love him, and that now i'm waiting for him to make up his damn mind.
any thoughs on what's goin on????

[FailedSense]

hey, I try not to lie! And I succeed.....b/c I'm honest about the fact that I am frightened of relationships. A lot of guys that have been hurt in the past are. And a lot of guys that haven't been hurt in the past are.

Or he's just an a-hole.

Ultimately, confront him about it. Thats what must be done. Tell him how he is making you feel. Make him answer you.

I'm going through something the same, and yet completely different. Which makes no sense, but it does leave me near tears at times. >.>

Yes, a male just admitted to being near tears. ^.~