Love Confusion? Options

[sweet_kisses_ox]

Okay so this is what happened and I dont know what to do...:
So I went to this camp and I met a lot of good friends and a few guys. And I met this one guy and we talked and I lied down on his lap and like we laughed and he makes fun of me and I make fun of him. Anyways we were leaving the next day and I go home and than go online and I talk to him and I tell him I like him (he has a girlfriend) and he says haha I like you too, sorry but youre not the girl I love though. And so I say yeah I understand. Than afterwards I noticed that he talks and communicates with me more than his girlfriend and so I tell him online I feel bad cuz everytime I talk to you I fall for you deeper and I also feel bad cuz you have a girlfriend. He just laughs and says Its okay as long as we dont make out or something cuz I want to stay with my girlfriend for a long time. So than I said but I dont feel alright with this and than we get into this huge fight and than I ask him, Do you really like me? Or did you say that cuz I told you I liked you? And he answers Nah I like you as a Really Close Friend. And Im just in shock and saying wth?! And than he gets all touchy and says so you want me to dump my girlfriend to go out with you? And I just say I never said that and than he talks to me like nothing ever happened the last 30 mins. And now Im really confused.......I asked him today to tell me why he said he ever liked me if he never did and he says I said that? I dont remember saying that? Did I really? And than I said How do you NOT remember?! And than he says Oh right I remember, Ill tell you later. And Im just so confused what do I do? I still Really like him. Help me please?

[dahding]

when he said, "i like you too", are u sure that he meant it as, "i like the same way u like me" or was it more of, "i like you as a friend"? maybe it's a communication problem or something. and why would u be so shocked? he has a girlfriend, and u two are good friends, so it shouldn't really be so surprising. maybe ur just believing and interpreting things one way because u want to hear it that way.. cause it seems like he wasn't playing around with ur feelings, but rather, he was just taking it in a light mood.

i think that he only meant that he liked u as a friend. miscommunication as usual. best thing to do is maybe a little distance from him, but don't cut him off, and try to get over him. lust after some other guy, and maybe it'll help u get over him.

hope it all works out..

[topsyturvy]

maybe ur just believing and interpreting things one way because u want to hear it that way..

^ Agree with that.

If you knew he had a gf, why did you continue to "like him" in the first place?

He made it clear that he won't give up his gf for you. So i guess you should forget him.