I can't hide it from her, i made a promise... Options

[flipboa185]

Idk....we've tried so hard to keep our relationship...through the tiems where ppl were all up on our faces sayin it wouldn't work and how I was goign to play her...how ppl didn't trust me....she had to force her self not to listen to that cus she knew it wasn't true...and i knew i wasn't going to do that....but even my clsoet friend seems to be losing faith in us.....this long distance relationship....we onyl see each otha a few times.....nd now i feel bad....she was jealous how all these girls were at my party....and how she couldn't come...since she was leaving for jamaica for a week...one girl at the party i was acting all flirty round.....nd i know i have to tell her before someone else does...

this is what my friend said to this..."hmm...maybe this long distance relation ship with xia isnt working well for you, cause you cant be that way whenever you want in a long distance relationship, like you can only see them at a certain time and cuddle and whatever at that time, meanwhile in a close(distance wise) relationship you can just see the person and hang out and cuddle and do whatever easier then it is with xia, or any long distnce relationship"

idk what to do.....i can't let her go...our efforts would of been all in vain... i love her too much....but would she let me go once i tell her what happened?....she done enuff to love me and tolerate what others say....but i'm not sure if she would be able to do so thsi time.....

[ladystarr]

i was in a situation like this before, but breaking off my long distance relationship was one of the smartest decisions I've made 'cuz I found someone else I truly belong to. I loved my ex, but it was hard only seeing each other a couple times a month and talking on the phone/online was getting bOoOring.

What I had in front of me was soooo much better. I'm a very faithful person and I never cheated on anyone, but I admit I was very flirty when I still had a long distance relationship. I know that sounds contradicting, but I never cheated (kissed, gotten sexual, held hands...whatever u think is cheating). I always hung out with guys and liked the attention I got since my bf lived far away.

What I'm trying to say is that...u'll find someone that lives in the same city or whatever...maybe its one of ur cool girl buddies or whoever. For me I ended up dating one of those guys that I always hung out with and its soooo much better than my old long distance relationship.

I suggest not putting up with a long distance relationship 'cuz u'll probably break up. I put up with mine for almost 2 years too... Anyway, I know she'll be heartbroken, but it'll be good for her too...she might find someone that lives near her that makes her really happy. Just think of this of a good learning experience. GOODLUCK with everything!