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[azndreamer]

If a girl more or less told u she liked u over the phone, how would u respond?

- I need a guys perspective on this so thx

Ok sry. Here are the details. Me and him we talk a lot abt basically anything and everything and there arent that many awkward silences or anything. Were friends but we flirt a lot and he kinda makes it seem like he likes me. Well we were just talking today and he was bugging me abt who i liked so i kinda let it slip he thought i was joking somewhat but i was serious and he didnt rlly respond. So yea, thoughts anyone?

PS- Thanks u guys for answering

[CrazayChristian]

I would personally see if she was serious first, make something like:

Her:I like you
me:Really? Prove it.
her:*response*
me:I appreciate the courage you took to tell me this.*not exactly these words*

and then go on through conversation, make sure it doesn't seem akward and stuff. The one thing guys don't want, is an akward situation. I personally would make sure it didn't at least SEEM that way.

NORMAL guys however:

Her:I like you
Guy:*thinking: think think think...* Silence*

They make the situation akward. If they like you then they will think of how to tell you. If they don't, they will think of how to reject you.

So, don't think that thinking is a problem, or silence. It's just them trying to think, because they were caught off gaurd.