ughh, my troubles and worries Options

[lumpy]

hey, its been a while since ive been on this board. anyways, last night i was talking to my ex, and it started off with her telling me that she didnt feel the same about me as i did for her. and so i was kinda down about that, so we talked for another hour or three, and by the end of the conversation, she told me that she would go back out with me if i cut my hair(yeah i have long hair.... work has been getting at me about it, so i figured hey), and if i was more "dedicated", whatever that means? but i guess the whole reason she broke up with me in the first place was is because i didnt kiss her. but that really wasnt my fault, she never wanted to be alone, always wanted her friends there, and she's always got drama practice. so there was never any time. so im like lost on as what to do. cut my hair and get her back or say hey im not changing for you?

any help is greatly appreciated.

-bryan

[nerdxcore]

yeah. you shouldn't cut your hair and change for her. i mean that alone sounds silly. but you could also cut your hair... and don't take her back. personaly, i don't think it was just about the hair. maybe she was just using that as an excuse to cover up why she really doesn't want to be with you. but like you said, it could have been the kissing thing. which doesnt even make sense either!