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i have a friend who criticizes, everything
yupimchuck
post Jun 9 2005, 11:29 PM
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Hm. So yeah. I have this friend.. Ill call her Jane.
Weve been friends since about 4th grade.
And recently.. Im really not sure why, shes been riticizing everything i do or have.
like.. today. when she was over.. she was talking and out of nowhere she goes
"i dont like your lipring its too big its annoying and i hate it change it"
just over and over.
or shell be like "you need to straighten your hair"
"i dont like that color eyeshadow on you"
"i dont like your haircolor"

on and on and on.
about little things.
and its really getting to me. because this just started a few months ago,
and i really dont know why shes doing it.
is it jealousy or does she not notice shes doing it?

i dont know. please help :/
 
 
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Dabme
post Jun 29 2005, 04:54 PM
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I have a friend who was like that to me for a long time.Kinda made me feel bad cuz we were great friends.So I kind of acted that way back towards her and I I kept doing it until she snapped.She finaly told me in a letter that she was just mad because I was hanging around her sister alot.Hey I cant help the fact that I had a crush on her.Plus she always seemed to never care much about me whenever we saw eachother.Give it time maybe your friend will tell you whats up.
 

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lost [child]   i have a friend who criticizes   Jun 9 2005, 11:29 PM
Skyline Drive   It sounds rude, maybe she is jealous. You need to ...   Jun 10 2005, 12:03 AM
THiS__CHiCK   Ugh. She's freakin` stupid. Yeah. I think ...   Jun 10 2005, 12:08 AM
__heartache   hmm yea i used to have a friend like that. just co...   Jun 10 2005, 12:10 AM
lost [child]   Any time i come close to saying somethign liek tha...   Jun 10 2005, 12:28 AM
K!$$   Wow.. the exact same thing happened to me a while ...   Jun 10 2005, 05:05 AM
_sarcastic_   she's just jealous of you, ignore her when she...   Jun 10 2005, 07:28 AM
xFaith   Talk to her about it, say you find it annoying and...   Jun 10 2005, 08:08 AM
stolenantics   just say "so what this is me if u dont like i...   Jun 10 2005, 09:32 AM
lost [child]   I really want to just let her have it. &almost...   Jun 10 2005, 08:24 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(lost [child),Jun 10 2005, 8:24 PM]but s...   Jun 10 2005, 09:58 PM
DaToNeViEtBoI916   criticize her right back. then when she gets all ...   Jun 10 2005, 08:49 PM
iNyCxShoRT   She may not even notice she does thosr kinda thing...   Jun 10 2005, 10:13 PM
lost [child]   ^ They DO suit me. and i know they do. but i mean...   Jun 10 2005, 10:13 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(lost [child] @ Jun 10 2005, 10...   Jun 10 2005, 10:46 PM
Paradox of Life   You shouldn't end a friendship because of her ...   Jun 11 2005, 01:25 AM
xlaydee_v   well idk i used to be like that for like two hours...   Jun 11 2005, 08:36 AM
Statistik   thats crazy yo   Jun 11 2005, 11:19 AM
aznhunnie6o1   Jeez... I criticize, but I know when to stop... W...   Jun 11 2005, 12:28 PM
enyceXaddiction   sounds like jealousy to me.   Jun 11 2005, 03:06 PM
lost [child]   whats if its not jealousy. What if its just how mu...   Jun 12 2005, 01:44 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Tell her that the reason why you are her friend be...   Jun 12 2005, 01:56 AM
Loserwithstyle   Confront her about it, and if she gets all mad the...   Jun 12 2005, 10:10 AM
lost [child]   ^ i know alot about her family and whats going on....   Jun 12 2005, 10:20 AM
albusdolohov   just say "ARE YOU GOING ON TO MENOPAUSE?...   Jun 12 2005, 10:40 AM
Shattered_Hope   Why don't you tell her how she's making yo...   Jun 12 2005, 11:40 AM
DizzyDucky09   juss tell her to shut up and tht if u needed sh...   Jun 29 2005, 03:45 PM
dreamerOi   i used to have the same problem. but she criticize...   Jun 29 2005, 04:11 PM
guessewho   I have a friend who was like that to me for a long...   Jun 29 2005, 04:54 PM
mouse_3k   make fun of her back. Just be like *U dont like my...   Jun 29 2005, 06:26 PM
gOODpIRATE   she might not even notice that she's doing it....   Jun 29 2005, 06:29 PM
sheepy   that's really rude, and i think she's jeal...   Jun 29 2005, 06:33 PM
left_alone   People critize other people so that they feel bett...   Jun 30 2005, 08:04 AM
soccer_gurly   i have a friend like that... in the beginning, she...   Jul 3 2005, 03:13 AM
pinayprincess   tell her "why the f**k do you care?" or ...   Jul 3 2005, 10:11 PM
Kristinaa   Damn, what a bitch. She shouldn't give a damn,...   Jul 3 2005, 10:49 PM
lost [child]   she compliments me sometimes too. so i really dont...   Jul 3 2005, 11:08 PM


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