how do you tell a boy.. Options

[littlelady7]

YOU LOVE THEM
i mean, do you just go up to them and say 'i love you'...? and walk away? i mean, people are always telling me that i should tell him i love him.. but how? i would kinda be freaked if a boy came up to me and told me 'hey i love you.'
YOU DONT WANT TO GO OUT
just say no. YES YES i know. but before you say that, it would hurt their feelings. someone DID say boys have feelings. what would you do? some people just walk away and say no. but i cant do that.
BREAK UP
i usually do them online. because there aren't any 'awkward silences'.. but to break up with them face-to-face... what would u say? probably somethin like... hey this isnt working out do u just want to be friends?? and he say yes blah blah and do you just walk away? idk...

[*stephinika*]

YOU LOVE THEM
well i wouldn't really 'love' them unless i was really close to them or going out with them for awhile probably...if you mean just 'like' then it would depend on the guy and how well i knew him. when i was a freshman haha i wrote it in a note... when i got older, i would just take that person aside and just talk to them and somehow slip it in...i don't know. haha

YOU DONT WANT TO GO OUT
well, i would just explain it to them nicely why...either i just don't feel that way or whatever probably...because that wouldn't be fair to either of us if i just lied and said yes, when i really didn't want to. it hurts of course, but just be gentle.

BREAK UP
anything but face-to-face is horrible. i just broke up with my boyfriend and i got him to meet me somewhere so i could do it in person. it was hard, but its the best way. just sit down and talk...i explained how i was feeling and why i was doing this and whatnot...its hard, but thats the way to do it i think.