is it better to be have loved,, or never loved? Options

[kraziegrl]

welll.. if you were once loved, its great, but if you find out they're suddenly cheating on you.. dont you feel like your lfie is ruined? [for a while] or get reallyreally frustrated..? or.. what breaks the relationship apart??

if you havent loved, then you might think something is wrong with you.. but you can have frends i guess, and not be in pain from a past relationship.

ehh.. i dont really know but people always say it's better to have loved..

[eboarder2020]

I once wrote an entry about whether or not it was better to love then not have loved at all.Heres what I wrote and what I believe

"I had the opportunity to fall in love. I had the opportunity to love someone with my heart, to care for someone with my all, and to share memories that cant be replaced. I, Me, RJ Quero Jr, had loved someone, and for 8 months she was here. For 8 months she made me complete. I had it all. I had my wishes come true. I was with someone who was beautiful in every way, and perfect in everything she did. For once in my life I looked past imperfections, and for once in my life I experienced true happiness. And for all of this I should be very thankful. I know realize that some people out there don’t even know what true love is, let alone fall in love. Many people don’t get dream to realities, or have the opportunity to have something so great. Some don’t get their first kisses, first dates, first dinner with family, first cuddling moment. I had all of those for 8 months. I should be thankful that I had an opportunity. I am now happy and content with being single, for the sole fact that I fell in love once, and right now that’s all that matters to me. Not only do you have to be thankful for the things you have, but also for the things you’ve had. Be thankful for the things you want, be thankful for the dreams you desire. I am now thankful that I had it all, even if it’s only for just once."


So in short...Be thankful for the relationship you had... Sometimes, people dont ever get to experience love, so be happy that you had your chance.