13-17, Should I go for it or leave it? Options

[Annie5332]

Sorry if this is already posted or w/e but my search engine wont work...

So I like this guy and hes 17. Catch? Im 13. 4 years difference. I mean, like we met at camp and stuff and I've been going for 3 weeks and we've flirted all week. Like he would always be flirting with me and smile and stuff....my question is should I go for it or leave it alone? Like he calls and stuff and idk what to do.

And DONT tell me Im young. I know...I know...I know....

[CrazayChristian]

I'll start off the same way I start off with everyone else,

I CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT TO DO

but, I can tell you what will most likely happen.


From what you tell me, this guy likes you (let's assume) and one thing I've found out is so true it hurts, is you will feel worse about what you didn't do than about what you did.

If you want to, then do it.
But here's what you need to expect:

1.He will probably want to do things you havn't done, or want to do.Set him straight just in case because older guys just have this tendency in most cases.

2.He might not be the way he is on the outside, prepare to see more sides to him.

3. He may not realize things about you, such as what normal 13 year olds are like. He could be used to being 17, so it might be a little akward for the both of you.

It's not unheard of, there are married couples with a 10 year age diffrence.

Make your choice, risk is alway involved ^_^

[xlaydee_v]

I'll start off the same way I start off with everyone else,

I CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT TO DO

but, I can tell you what will most likely happen.
From what you tell me, this guy likes you (let's assume) and one thing I've found out is so true it hurts, is you will feel worse about what you didn't do than about what you did.

If you want to, then do it.
But here's what you need to expect:

1.He will probably want to do things you havn't done, or want to do.Set him straight just in case because older guys just have this tendency in most cases.

2.He might not be the way he is on the outside, prepare to see more sides to him.

3. He may not realize things about you, such as what normal 13 year olds are like. He could be used to being 17, so it might be a little akward for the both of you.

It's not unheard of, there are married couples with a 10 year age diffrence.

Make your choice, risk is alway involved ^_^

i agree. and although you said not to say you're too young, you are! if he liked you back he would be a pedophile lol