can good friend turn bacc on you?, friend Options

[sam562]

ummz i in dis situation dat some1 im close 2<(he ish lyk my brother) is hittin on meeh..... lyk everytym im talkin 2 a friend he'll tell her 2 do sumthing and instead talk 2 meeh.. and i think dat friend of mines has a crush on him... and i dont lyk him.... buh she thinks i lyk him soo she bacc off and didnt talk 2 meeh 4 dais.... adn sumthmes in 4th period he'll come and hugg meeh 4rm da bacc which is very uncomfortable 2 meeh... and i think my friend saw it and seh started 2 cry.... and sumthimes i ask why she wouldnt tell meeh... and 1 tym wen meeh and him was playin and he wrote dis poem and he started 2 read it 2 meeh and i was lyk who ish dat foe.... and he looked at meeh.. and didint say anything.. and da poem was bout him lovin dis grl which da grl doesnt have feelins foe him..... deres was another tym wen a friend who lyked him sai 2 him.. dat meeh and him made such good couples howcome we wont juss go 2gether... and i was lyk nooo.. and he was lyk.... yea.. buh it work out.. and i looked at him and ask wat did he sai and he was lyk nvm.... and kinda feeelz werid..... cuz ish it lyk lovin ur brother...... buh he ish not buh wen i need help i turn 2 him.... and if he eva ask meeh out and i reject him some how he might turn bacc on 2 meeh....

[DrNick311]

If you don't feel the same way I would really be careful. It sounds like the two of you had a very strong friendship as it was. So you may end up damaging that relationship if you tell him too harshly. Take some time out to get your words down and try and break it to him as best as you can. Good luck