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love..a strong word?
enyceXaddiction
post Jun 24 2005, 08:51 PM
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recently i have stop using the word "love" usually whenever i have an crush on someone i go "i love him so much" or when i have a boyfriend i go throwing the word "love" around like its nothing

then my friend Jane [iNYCxSHORT] told me to think about it, do you really LOVE him? love's a really STRONG word. it means you would acctally jump in front of a bullet for him. ever since i've been thinking about it. its true. love is an extremly strong word. and when people use the word love like its nothing, & go "oh its just a word your over reacting" i get annoyed.

you dont HAVE to use the word love you can replace it with something else that means somewhat like it. like me for example whenever i mean to say "i love you" i go "i heart you" or "i <3 you"

am i just over reacting? or do you agree?
 
 
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CrazayChristian
post Jun 24 2005, 09:04 PM
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On the contrary, you can experiance love anytime.

However, it's what is Love and what is LUST that people are confused about.

YES, I belive LOVE is an EXTREMELY POWERFUL word and I don't like this "I love you" crap that people just SAY.

I had talked to this girl a while back.(She had a bad past, she wasn't looked very highly upon) I talked to her for a while. And well, eventually she had told me this:

"Your the first guy I've ever said 'I Love You' to and meant it."(From here on is a rough quote)"I use to tell guys I loved them, because...I don't know, it seemed insulting to not say love. I had to pretend, you were the only one I didn't have to pretend around."

(Guys, I was more like her brother, nothing really happend)

Why did I tell you this? To illistrate that people can be young, and they conform to everyone else because they care for someone. But when you have to say "Love" so that you can make someone who feels "Lust" feel closer to you, then you're using a powerful word for a powerful sin.

I'm not saying people are bad, I just can't stand hearing people say "Love" and "Hate" so much
 

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enyceXaddiction   love..a strong word?   Jun 24 2005, 08:51 PM
vehvih   Well I think that 'love' is superior than ...   Jun 24 2005, 08:53 PM
Frankie   TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS   Jun 24 2005, 08:53 PM
iheartsimba   I agree. I have never told a guy I loved him. I sa...   Jun 24 2005, 08:53 PM
b0st0ngrl   I hate when people put in their profiles "OMG...   Jun 24 2005, 08:57 PM
CrazayChristian   On the contrary, you can experiance love anytime. ...   Jun 24 2005, 09:04 PM
YoGrandpaIsFine   I never tell a guy that I love him. I tell a guy t...   Jun 24 2005, 09:07 PM
xlaydee_v   ^i agree.   Jun 24 2005, 09:18 PM
CrazayChristian   Well, I 've said Love before, but only when I ...   Jun 24 2005, 09:23 PM
soulless727   purple ponies (self deleted 12/30/06)   Jun 24 2005, 09:34 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   I don't really think you can know what real lo...   Jun 24 2005, 09:40 PM
emazing   Yes, love is a strong word; so is hate. I never wo...   Jun 24 2005, 10:36 PM
Paradox of Life   I never use the word love until I'm absolutely...   Jun 24 2005, 10:45 PM
SimplicityGirl   Love is a strong word. I only said it to one guy i...   Jun 24 2005, 11:02 PM
illuminessence   The term "love" is overused now to the p...   Jun 24 2005, 11:49 PM
xosugarkissesox   QUOTE(illuminessence @ Jun 25 2005, 12:49 AM)...   Jun 26 2005, 01:07 PM
Kristinaa   Love has been toned down these days. Which is real...   Jun 25 2005, 12:33 AM
sheepy   yeah i agree. love is an extremely strong word, it...   Jun 25 2005, 10:11 AM
CrazayChristian   Well, how can you tell you're in love then? T...   Jun 25 2005, 10:54 AM
Smilessss   well...i onno...cuz one of mi friends says she hat...   Jun 25 2005, 02:03 PM
Winter   It irks me when kids go "Oh I love him" ...   Jun 26 2005, 07:49 AM
K!$$   QUOTE(CrazayChristian @ Jun 25 2005, 11:54 PM...   Jun 26 2005, 10:15 AM
CrazayChristian   QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jun 26 2005, 9:15 ...   Jun 26 2005, 03:10 PM
sharerol   Yes, I would say love is a strong word. I mean, I...   Jun 26 2005, 01:16 PM
xo_sweetie   This is a hard topic. I think love is too stron...   Jun 26 2005, 02:11 PM
pinayprincess   yeh... but i have a different view of love, like ...   Jun 26 2005, 03:21 PM
angel_revelation   love is a strong word for me... at least relations...   Jun 26 2005, 06:32 PM


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