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littleizzywizzy
post Jun 24 2005, 11:55 AM
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cry.gif hi im iz
i am very confused about my life in total i am usure if i am gay or not. I think the ideal of lezzi is nasty(no offence at all i admire ur bravery) however i am attracted to sum girls i no the cum ova sleep at mine all the tme and i have to hold myself bk( i feel like the girl in sugar rush!)
I am v depressed for many reasons
1) dvorce between parents
2)mum tried 2 commit suicide
3)shit at skl & gcses cummin up

If u cn help let me no thanks

izzy 15 F uk
 
 
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post Jun 24 2005, 03:06 PM
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For starters, you need to get over your own confusion about how you feel about other girls. I'm not suggesting that you go out and forcefully grab a girl so you can make out with her, but try to come to terms with the fact that you are attracted to other girls and the you appreciate femininity.

Depression shouldn't be an excuse to explore homosexuality. Hell, if anything, find a way to treat your depresion first before you dive off the deep end and start confusing yourself with wild ideas. Do something productive, find a release form life thats contrstuctive and can make you happy. Read a book, write, explore with artwork and photography. Do something other than wallow in depression.

Talk to someone that you already know is a lesbian so they can help further your understanding of your own sexuality. Be real with yourself first and don't do anything drastic because you're upset. I appreciate your PM and feel free to let me know if there's anything else bothering you.

Just one more thing though; work on your grammar wink.gif
 

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littleizzywizzy   HELP GAY???   Jun 24 2005, 11:55 AM
BrandonSaunders   For starters, you need to get over your own confus...   Jun 24 2005, 03:06 PM
littleizzywizzy   thanks he he yea i no was in a bit of a hurry you ...   Jun 24 2005, 03:57 PM
mouse_3k   how can u get confused...U can either like girls o...   Jun 24 2005, 06:49 PM
enyceXaddiction   i can see why your despressed. wow the thing with ...   Jun 24 2005, 07:39 PM
CrazayChristian   I think she's confused because she feels one w...   Jun 24 2005, 08:25 PM
soulless727   purple ponies (self deleted 12/30/06)   Jun 24 2005, 09:40 PM
i heart john   Brandon's reply was excellent. This should be ...   Jun 24 2005, 10:45 PM
illuminessence   You're probably bisexual. It's pretty comm...   Jun 24 2005, 11:51 PM
berry_lickable   i hope you dont talk like the way you type.   Jun 25 2005, 12:03 AM
Kristinaa   QUOTEI think she's confused because she feels ...   Jun 25 2005, 12:31 AM
_suzie_   ...ok none of you have helped her. just cussed her...   Jun 25 2005, 10:30 AM
CrazayChristian   QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Jun 25 2005, 9:30 AM)...ok no...   Jun 25 2005, 10:46 AM
mocassinsx29   Woah, I'm sorry about what happened in your fa...   Jun 25 2005, 02:42 PM
littleizzywizzy   yes i agree some people have just confused me but ...   Jun 26 2005, 06:53 AM
littleizzywizzy   QUOTEhow can u get confused...U can either like gi...   Jun 26 2005, 06:59 AM
left_alone   It takes awhile for everyone to know what sexualit...   Jun 30 2005, 08:15 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   Be careful of your thoughts. They can be your habi...   Jun 30 2005, 05:02 PM
REBELnDISGUISE   QUOTE(littleizzywizzy @ Jun 24 2005, 8:55 AM)...   Jul 1 2005, 08:16 PM
takeapolaroid__x   ugh i have the same problem it's so embarra...   Jul 2 2005, 06:31 AM
Fallen Fairy   I wish I could give you some kick ass advice howev...   Jul 2 2005, 07:03 PM


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