i broke up with my bf, did i do the right thing? Options

[loljuliana]

well to start off, i've been with this guy for about 5 months. he liked this other girl, Jane, for a long time before we went out. Then he told me that he liked me more. So we went out for awhile. Awhile ago, i asked him if he still liked her. He said no and that they were only friends.

in about a week, i'm leaving for about 3 weeks to go to china. and then he started talking about breaking up. i kept saying how i didnt want to; and he kept saying how it would be better for me, all that stuff. i'm not sure if he wanted to break up or not; cause apparently; he "loves" me.

and then i asked him if he ever missed me. i always missed him, every single day. my heart would be aching like crazy until i'm on the verge of tears whenever he's not around. and i wondered if he missed me the way i missed him.

me: do you ever miss me?
him: yeah
him: every night
me: every night..?
him: yeah; cause in the day, im usually with you
me: and when you're not?
him: i dunno; im always thinking about hw.

when he said that he thinks about hw all the time, i knew he was lying. i always see him laughing and playing basketball with his friends. and then later on, i got bored and signed onto his screenname when he was on it. right when i signed on, he kicked me off. so i told him that i had to do something. and i signed on again. and right when i sign on, i get an im from the girl he used to like:

GgoMa91: cuz if ure breakin up wit her cuz of me
GgoMa91: im sorry
GgoMa91: n ill go
XDTenzingXD: what did you say before?
GgoMa91: GgoMa91: cuz if ure breakin up wit her cuz of me
GgoMa91: im sorry
GgoMa91: n ill go
XDTenzingXD: no before tat
GgoMa91: GgoMa91: GgoMa91: GgoMa91: XDTenzingXD: i still hav u noe feelings towards u << like now?

GgoMa91 is Jane.
i was pretending to be him, and that was me talking (xDTenzingxD)

so i find out that he told her that he still liked her. i got so pissed that he lied to me that i broke it off with him. i started to tell him that i hated him, and took back everything i ever said to him. i took back all the "i love you"s and "i miss you"s. i got so pissed that i said anything that came to mind.



so now i'm asking, do you think i did the right thing and broke up with him?
cause right now, im regretting it all.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I totally agree with Nancy. I'm on neither sides, but I guess you guys broke up for the better of it. He was going off to high school while we still remained. Although I would've waited to hear both sides of the story before doing anything. I read Elina's comment as well and say "she should have listened to you" You had your reasons. And he had his. Don't worry babe, me amy jue and nancy will get you through it all.