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bedroom privacy, WOW, I WANT ONE FOR 5.99 !
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post Jun 12 2005, 12:24 AM
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Is it okay if a child get to have his/her own room without sharing with another sibling?

my thoughts .....

POSiTiVE
yes - more privacy, child's feel safer, and comfortable w/out sharing.
no - more secure w/ another person, limited spaces and developed a child's level of respect other privacy.

NEGATiVE
yes -increase risk of danger hidden items, increase sexual items such as porn magazine, and dangerous diet magazine.
no - uncomfortable things that sibling does to you, sibling abuse you, sibling treat you like slaves, and etc ..


Share some of your thoughts.


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child age is from 12-16
 
 
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post Jun 12 2005, 01:13 AM
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Hmm.. i guess it depends on the kid(s) you're talking about. ermm.gif Every child is different.
 
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post Jun 12 2005, 11:51 AM
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QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jun 12 2005, 12:13 AM)
Hmm.. i guess it depends on the kid(s) you're talking about. ermm.gif Every child is different.
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^ That's true. I share a room with my brother because he's afraid of the dark (has some kind of sleeping disorder) and I don't mind. There's 2 other rooms in the house where I could say was my own room, but I don't because I spend most of the time in my brother's anyway.
How could a child get porn magazines? You have to subscribe for them and be 18 or older to subscribe for them. Maybe he could get it from a friend, but parents will find out sooner or later without having to come into their room. If it's an issue that concerns the law, you have a right to invade their privacy. If they were hiding guns in their closet and were about to go out and kill everybody in their school, you have a right to confiscate those things before anyone gets hurt.
 
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post Jun 12 2005, 02:02 PM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 12 2005, 8:51 AM)
^ That's true. I share a room with my brother because he's afraid of the dark (has some kind of sleeping disorder) and I don't mind. There's 2 other rooms in the house where I could say was my own room, but I don't because I spend most of the time in my brother's anyway.
How could a child get porn magazines? You have to subscribe for them and be 18 or older to subscribe for them. Maybe he could get it from a friend, but parents will find out sooner or later without having to come into their room. If it's an issue that concerns the law, you have a right to invade their privacy. If they were hiding guns in their closet and were about to go out and kill everybody in their school, you have a right to confiscate those things before anyone gets hurt.
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um, a child can get money from parents w/out being asked,child asked money from kids to buy food when it's not true, get free magazines from internet(censorship), or you can get it from friends. they are many possibilities.
 
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post Jun 12 2005, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 1:02 PM)
um, a child can get money from parents w/out being asked,child asked money from kids to buy food when it's not true, get free magazines from internet(censorship), or you can get it from friends. they are many possibilities.
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Um, you pay for online porn magazines via Paypal or some other form of online payment. It's usually not something you mail in. And even if it is, they'll make you fill out forms that have information that only someone 18 or older would know. There are many possibilities, which is why I said that it is possible for them to get their hands on porn. And if they did, their parents would most likely find out without having to go into their room (siblings, confession, find it lying around in the open).
 
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post Jun 13 2005, 12:50 AM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 12 2005, 1:36 PM)
Um, you pay for online porn magazines via Paypal or some other form of online payment. It's usually not something you mail in. And even if it is, they'll make you fill out forms that have information that only someone 18 or older would know. There are many possibilities, which is why I said that it is possible for them to get their hands on porn. And if they did, their parents would most likely find out without having to go into their room (siblings, confession, find it lying around in the open).
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Yes, thats the main point. blink.gif Those kids's mind are still into porn thats why should parents determine whether their child should have its own bedroom.
 
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post Jun 13 2005, 05:54 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 11:50 PM)
Yes, thats the main point.  blink.gif Those kids's mind are still into porn thats why should parents determine whether their child should have its own bedroom.
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Sorry pinch.gif I actually don't know what having porn has anything to do with a bedroom, but I already said that it's pretty much impossible for a kid to order them himself. You don't have to own porn to know it's out there (and know what's in it), I mean you can go online and look at it without subscribing into anything, but that has nothing to do with this topic. wink.gif
 
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post Jun 19 2005, 01:22 PM
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 13 2005, 2:54 PM)
Sorry  pinch.gif I actually don't know what having porn has anything to do with a bedroom, but I already said that it's pretty much impossible for a kid to order them himself. You don't have to own porn to know it's out there (and know what's in it), I mean you can go online and look at it without subscribing into anything, but that has nothing to do with this topic.  wink.gif
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yeah.. should a child has their own room ? if you share roon w/ a siblings, if they caught you watching porn on the internet, they'll tell mommy and daddy on you.

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if a parent open your dooor and saw you watching it on the internet before you can exit.
 
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post Jun 19 2005, 10:18 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 19 2005, 12:22 PM)
yeah.. should a child has their own room ? if you share roon w/ a siblings, if they caught you watching porn on the internet, they'll tell mommy and daddy on you.

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if a parent open your dooor and saw you watching it on the internet before you can exit.
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He's looking at porn. Big effing deal. He's going to at one point in his life. It's effing baby-making! Gawd, people make such a big deal about looking at porn. How is looking at porn going to affect anything in your LIFE? They'll find out sooner or later, I'll tell you that. Whether you're sharing a room or not. Sharing a room is an invasion of privacy and sometimes you just want to be alone and do what you want to do without the consent of your roomate.
 
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QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 19 2005, 7:18 PM)
He's looking at porn. Big effing deal. He's going to at one point in his life. It's effing baby-making! Gawd, people make such a big deal about looking at porn. How is looking at porn going to affect anything in your LIFE? They'll find out sooner or later, I'll tell you that. Whether you're sharing a room or not. Sharing a room is an invasion of privacy and sometimes you just want to be alone and do what you want to do without the consent of your roomate.
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So, its okay for a child to keep on staring it front of the screen ? he is going to be waaaaaaaayy to horney .. maybe a stronger sick minded .. or .. obession ..

this thread isnt just about porn, its also about violents such as guns.
 
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post Jun 22 2005, 10:01 PM
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QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 20 2005, 5:38 PM)
So, its okay for a child to keep on staring it front of the screen ? he is going to be waaaaaaaayy to horney .. maybe a stronger sick minded .. or .. obession ..

this thread isnt just about porn, its also about violents such as guns.
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How can a kid get his hands on a gun? Especially without his parents noticing at all regardless of where it's hidden.
 

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Spiritual Winged Aura   bedroom privacy   Jun 12 2005, 12:24 AM
aera   sometimes im happy i dont share my room... but on ...   Jun 12 2005, 12:58 AM
K!$$   Hmm.. i guess it depends on the kid(s) you're ...   Jun 12 2005, 01:13 AM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jun 12 2005, 12:13...   Jun 12 2005, 11:51 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 12 2005, 8:51 AM)^ That...   Jun 12 2005, 02:02 PM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 1:02 PM...   Jun 12 2005, 04:36 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 12 2005, 1:36 PM)Um, you ...   Jun 13 2005, 12:50 AM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 11:50 P...   Jun 13 2005, 05:54 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 13 2005, 2:54 PM)Sorry  ...   Jun 19 2005, 01:22 PM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 19 2005, 12:22 P...   Jun 19 2005, 10:18 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 19 2005, 7:18 PM)He's...   Jun 20 2005, 06:38 PM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 20 2005, 5:38 PM...   Jun 22 2005, 10:01 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Jun 22 2005, 7:01 PM)How can ...   Jun 23 2005, 03:11 AM
Paradox of Life   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 23 2005, 2:11 AM...   Jun 26 2005, 01:50 AM
mipadi   I hate sharing living spaces with people.   Jun 12 2005, 02:22 AM
xcaitlinx   every person is entitled to their own personal spa...   Jun 12 2005, 09:31 AM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(caytexo @ Jun 12 2005, 8:31 AM)every pe...   Jun 12 2005, 10:05 AM
XoJennaoX   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 12:24 A...   Jun 12 2005, 11:44 AM
sammi rules you   what if you're an only child? you have no cho...   Jun 12 2005, 03:06 PM
sammi rules you   QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jun 12 2005, 2:06 PM)...   Jun 23 2005, 05:59 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jun 23 2005, 2:59 AM)...   Jun 25 2005, 08:17 PM
xcaitlinx   QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Jun 23 2005, 5:59 AM)...   Jun 26 2005, 12:01 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE(caytexo @ Jun 26 2005, 9:01 AM)if you...   Jul 24 2005, 01:57 AM
crayonzUpMyNose   i love having my own room. its nice having your ow...   Jun 12 2005, 08:54 PM
youdrivinmegrapes   I'm split. I think it's good for small chi...   Jun 13 2005, 04:51 PM
not_your_average   I have my own room. I don't look at porn.   Jun 19 2005, 03:07 PM
ROARxD   well for the ages of 12-16 the kids will probably ...   Jun 19 2005, 07:17 PM
BrandonSaunders   Porn is ridiculously easy to access. Scenario: An...   Jun 20 2005, 12:38 AM
xsweetxcandyx   i've never shared a room but i like my privacy...   Jun 20 2005, 02:33 AM
lAzN YiN YanGl   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 12 2005, 12:24 A...   Jun 23 2005, 02:30 PM
CrazayChristian   I'm more of a not sharing person. I've ex...   Jun 23 2005, 02:38 PM
Kristinaa   Ok I have 2 brothers and since me being the daught...   Jun 25 2005, 12:44 AM
Spiritual Winged Aura   HEY ! anyways .... If a child is so pisse...   Jun 26 2005, 04:17 AM
RED_RUM   ive been sharing a room with my sister since i was...   Jul 24 2005, 02:13 AM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(RED_RUM @ Jul 24 2005, 1:13 AM)ive been...   Jul 24 2005, 07:29 PM
Bobblehead425   well, i would prefer not to share my room. number ...   Jul 28 2005, 06:21 PM
ursedonah   teens deserve their privacy. If they have things l...   Aug 1 2005, 05:12 PM
mai_z   Everyone deserves to have privacy in a moral sense...   Aug 2 2005, 07:06 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(mai_z @ Aug 2 2005, 8:06 PM)Everyone de...   Aug 3 2005, 07:32 AM
xchrystizzle   if theres room for each to have their own rooms, t...   Aug 3 2005, 05:14 AM
zepfel   i think that if the child wishes to attain more pr...   Aug 3 2005, 02:27 PM
Paradox of Life   ^ ... How does adapting to ones' surroundings ...   Aug 3 2005, 10:54 PM
zepfel   QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Aug 4 2005, 4:54 AM)^ ... How...   Aug 4 2005, 08:56 AM
yellowgurl   I dont share a room but sometimes I wish I did bec...   Aug 3 2005, 11:25 PM
Olive   Yes mainly because children fart a lot. (averaging...   Aug 4 2005, 03:59 AM
CarbiNe   its good for children to have a privacy and a plac...   Aug 8 2005, 10:19 PM
Purplefender86   Um, That's kind of dumb. I'm an only child...   Aug 13 2005, 06:47 PM
candychica   if the house doesn't support each kid having t...   Aug 18 2005, 02:02 AM
dahalfkoreanstyl   they should share, im an only child and now im in ...   Aug 27 2005, 06:53 PM


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