ughh, my troubles and worries Options

[lumpy]

hey, its been a while since ive been on this board. anyways, last night i was talking to my ex, and it started off with her telling me that she didnt feel the same about me as i did for her. and so i was kinda down about that, so we talked for another hour or three, and by the end of the conversation, she told me that she would go back out with me if i cut my hair(yeah i have long hair.... work has been getting at me about it, so i figured hey), and if i was more "dedicated", whatever that means? but i guess the whole reason she broke up with me in the first place was is because i didnt kiss her. but that really wasnt my fault, she never wanted to be alone, always wanted her friends there, and she's always got drama practice. so there was never any time. so im like lost on as what to do. cut my hair and get her back or say hey im not changing for you?

any help is greatly appreciated.

-bryan

[*mipadi*]

If cutting your hair is what it will take to get her back, then it seems your relationship wasn't very strong or serious in the first place.

I'm not going to be so idealist as to suggest that appearance doesn't/shouldn't matter at all in relationships, but if you really care about someone, the length of their hair isn't going to be a big concern. Sure, you might try to get them to cut it , but you're not going to leave them, or come back to them, based on the length of their hair.