ughh friends problem |
 Jun 21 2005, 09:22 PM
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alli  Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108  |
okay so im not an open person..i dont like speaking my feelings..like u no? i just dont like opening up and explaining to everyone whats rong..and all of a sudden my best friends of like 5 yrs r all of sudden making me feel bad..they keep telling me i need to open up..but thats just not mee..and they keep putting me down..and i tell them nothingss rong cuz there is nothing rong..but they dont understand that..so if u get any of this ..plz HELP! thanks
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Jun 22 2005, 02:45 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Someone please move this to Relationships.
Well, you can't really blame your friends... Lets think about this in another perspective: One of your friends are suddenly very unhappy one day. You're very worried about her and ask her what's wrong. However, she refuses to answer and continues to act depressed around everyone. When people ask, she just shakes her head and looks away. There is nothing anyone can do to make her feel better, not even you - her best friend for years. How do you feel? Rejected? From this perspective, you might feel as though she doesn't trust you with her secrets. But, she tells you it's because she's less open. What else can you say? Sooo.. i think you should at least talk to your friends a bit. You don't have to tell them everything; just make them feel like they know what's going on. (TIP: DO NOT LIE.) |
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alli ughh friends problem Jun 21 2005, 09:22 PM
andriaalazing* well being open really is the best thing to do.
bu... Jun 21 2005, 09:24 PM picaso_smile Maybe if you have trouble opening up verbaly you c... Jun 21 2005, 10:02 PM ExExEx If they don't respect your privacy then I don... Jun 21 2005, 10:10 PM
anqie QUOTE(ExExEx @ Jun 21 2005, 8:10 PM)If they d... Jun 22 2005, 03:18 AM jeSs1cA Maybe you can just tell your friends straight up t... Jun 22 2005, 12:53 AM electric shock Relationships perhaps?
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Well, you know, a fr... Jun 22 2005, 02:24 AM DisneyPrincessKate of they're being pushy about it maybe next tim... Jun 22 2005, 03:22 AM beautifuls0ul_x3 if they have been best friends with you for 5 year... Jun 22 2005, 11:22 AM Frankie TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS Jun 22 2005, 12:50 PM lilxl0ser lols..if theres nothing wrong then theres really n... Jun 22 2005, 12:58 PM aznhunnie6o1 Just tell them you'll open up eventually and t... Jun 22 2005, 02:03 PM |
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