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Money = Good Grades?
JlIaTMK
post Jun 11 2005, 03:53 PM
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Hm, so about a week ago in my second hour class, there was this boy talking about how he receives money for getting all B's in school. He also mentioned that he gets 10 dollars for each b he received and that if he received an a, he would get 20 dollars for that one grade.
Now, seriously, parents have to bribe their kids nowadays to get them to get b's and a's in school?
How piteous is this?

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ladystarr
post Jun 21 2005, 04:11 PM
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I was never given money for my good grades like for every quarter, but I knew my parents were always proud of me 'cuz once I got older they paid for my car & help me pay for college.

I never felt pressure from my parents it was UP to me to take AP/honors classes. I DID it all on my own... I graduated with an honors diploma and a 4.0. I pushed myself in school for my OWN satisfaction. Even if my parents gave me money it wouldn't matter cuz' I still would've been MOTIVATED on my own to succeed.

I don't think giving money to your kids is a bad idea, it seems wrong 'cuz every grade has a price and it MAY seem like a wrong motivation, BUT if a kid is working his butt off to get money (maybe for something he/she might want ex: psp, cds, games, etc...) Then it IS a GOOD MOTIVATOR. How else can a kid get money besides weekly allowance? Some kids don't even get an allowance. By working their asses off to study and get good grades they ARE LEARNING + gaining some cash for something they really want.

If I was a parent I would definitely REWARD my kids. Whether it be taking them out to ice cream or given them money to SAVE UP for a psp or something. I don't understand this argument about giving money as a BAD MOTIVATON method. Its B.S. 'cuz if a kid is really DETERMINED he/she will work hard to get a reward. Isn't that what we live life for.. WORK HARD and get something good?
 

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JlIaTMK   Money = Good Grades?   Jun 11 2005, 03:53 PM
sadolakced acid   i wish my parents did that. 140 bucks 4 times a...   Jun 11 2005, 03:56 PM
mona lisa   I think it's stupid. Of course, I'd love t...   Jun 11 2005, 03:59 PM
DisneyPrincessKate   My parents stopped getting me stuff for grades whe...   Jun 11 2005, 04:00 PM
ghetosmurph   QUOTE(DisneyPrincessKate @ Jun 11 2005, 4:00 ...   Jun 11 2005, 08:25 PM
JlIaTMK   Eh, I don't know. I mean, it may help them to...   Jun 11 2005, 04:00 PM
Szeh   My mother does the same, but fewer amounts of mone...   Jun 11 2005, 04:01 PM
jnukes   QUOTE(JAMx33 @ Jun 11 2005, 1:01 PM)I think i...   Jun 12 2005, 11:23 PM
JlIaTMK   Eh, the thing is that it doesn't really teach ...   Jun 11 2005, 04:03 PM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(JlIaTMK @ Jun 11 2005, 4:03 PM)Eh, the ...   Jun 12 2005, 12:00 AM
Frankie   not only is is stupid but also very sad. kids can...   Jun 11 2005, 08:52 PM
Spirited Away   My parents never had that kind of money to spare. ...   Jun 11 2005, 10:18 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   I dont think parent should give out money to their...   Jun 11 2005, 11:56 PM
BrandonSaunders   If the parents have moeny to spare then by all mea...   Jun 12 2005, 10:15 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 12 2005, 11:15 AM...   Jun 12 2005, 06:00 PM
basick   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 12 2005, 3:00 PM)The probl...   Jun 12 2005, 09:04 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(basick @ Jun 12 2005, 10:04 PM)What gra...   Jun 12 2005, 09:08 PM
basick   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 12 2005, 6:08 PM)I don...   Jun 12 2005, 09:11 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 12 2005, 10:15 AM...   Jun 13 2005, 01:12 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Jun 13 2005, 12:12 PM)I...   Jun 13 2005, 01:24 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 13 2005, 1:24 PM)...   Jun 13 2005, 06:34 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Jun 13 2005, 5:34 PM)Fi...   Jun 13 2005, 07:41 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 13 2005, 8:41 PM)...   Jun 13 2005, 08:30 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 13 2005, 7:30 PM)Who said ...   Jun 13 2005, 08:39 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jun 13 2005, 9:39 PM)...   Jun 13 2005, 08:57 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 13 2005, 7:57 PM)I think y...   Jun 14 2005, 10:52 AM
sadolakced acid   welcome to real life. if you do a better job in r...   Jun 12 2005, 09:19 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jun 12 2005, 8:19 PM)...   Jun 12 2005, 10:34 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jun 12 2005, 10:19 PM...   Jun 13 2005, 12:13 AM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 13 2005, 12:13 AM)Is that ...   Jun 13 2005, 10:16 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jun 13 2005, 11:16 AM...   Jun 13 2005, 03:03 PM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 13 2005, 3:03 PM)So you...   Jun 13 2005, 06:49 PM
mipadi   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jun 13 2005, 7:49 PM)...   Jun 13 2005, 06:53 PM
MyVermilionPlague   I don't think it's the best way to go. Sur...   Jun 13 2005, 12:35 AM
iheartsimba   Well..if that's what you have to do to motivat...   Jun 13 2005, 10:20 AM
chaneun   Eh, not really. I never get paid or get any gift ...   Jun 13 2005, 01:29 PM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(chaneun @ Jun 13 2005, 12:29 PM)Eh, not...   Jun 13 2005, 01:33 PM
sadolakced acid   ehh.. it's like gambleing... (this was a rea...   Jun 13 2005, 09:21 PM
mipadi   I suppose it doesn't work in all cases, but it...   Jun 14 2005, 10:55 AM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jun 14 2005, 9:55 AM)I suppose...   Jun 14 2005, 11:05 AM
mipadi   In terms of getting good grades? I was always moti...   Jun 14 2005, 12:12 PM
gOODpIRATE   i think that it's perfectly fine. if that...   Jun 14 2005, 06:51 PM
waitwaitwait   You're only saying it's stupid because you...   Jun 15 2005, 10:41 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(waitwaitwait @ Jun 15 2005, 10:41 PM)Yo...   Jun 15 2005, 11:57 PM
miss barnes   i think its a good thing. if getting money motivat...   Jun 16 2005, 12:59 AM
Kristinaa   Heh. My friends parents bribed her saying if she g...   Jun 16 2005, 10:54 AM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jun 16 2...   Jun 19 2005, 10:54 PM
nerdxcore   i used to be paid for my grades. except it was 5 d...   Jun 19 2005, 09:59 PM
Kristinaa   QUOTEyou say bribery and blackmail like they'r...   Jun 21 2005, 03:02 PM
ladystarr   I was never given money for my good grades like fo...   Jun 21 2005, 04:11 PM
darinmoore   I got paid for my report cards whenever I recieved...   Jun 21 2005, 05:48 PM
ROARxD   thats stupid dudeee; i cant even get 5 dollars for...   Jun 21 2005, 05:52 PM
smile4me   i dont necessarily see it as a bribe. more as a re...   Jun 22 2005, 10:20 PM
mocassinsx29   I guess his parents cared about his future more th...   Jun 24 2005, 04:49 PM
xsweetxcandyx   its not bribing its just a reward for doing well ...   Jun 24 2005, 05:23 PM
Kenado   I get all A's and I get absolutely nothing   Jun 30 2005, 05:21 PM
insomniac   i think its bad because its kinda like parents are...   Jun 30 2005, 05:38 PM


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