what do u 1st look for in a guy??, im talkin wit my friends n it came up... Options

[xoStephie93]

yea.... the description says everything..... what do you first look for in a guy?? i was just talking with my friends and this conversation came up...we actually started arguing about it too though...lo l. i'm just wondering people!!

[dragyn]

Honestly (and there is reasoning behind this) the very first thing I look for is style. Looks aren't a huge thing for me, I mean, if a guy is terrible looking, I take that as a sign of how he takes care of himself. And When I say terrible, I don't mean his actual features, but, if he is very overweight, or isn't very clean looking.

Now, the reason I look for style first, is because you generally have to see someone before you can get to know them. This is thinking logically. Before you get to talk to him, would you rather base him on things he cant control so much (i.e., facial structure, eye color), or the way he chooses to present himself?

Naturally, after that, I look for a sense of humor.

And then it sort of falls into place, or doesn't.