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[demolished]

Is it okay if a child get to have his/her own room without sharing with another sibling?

my thoughts .....

POSiTiVE
yes - more privacy, child's feel safer, and comfortable w/out sharing.
no - more secure w/ another person, limited spaces and developed a child's level of respect other privacy.

NEGATiVE
yes -increase risk of danger hidden items, increase sexual items such as porn magazine, and dangerous diet magazine.
no - uncomfortable things that sibling does to you, sibling abuse you, sibling treat you like slaves, and etc ..


Share some of your thoughts.


edit.
child age is from 12-16

[topsyturvy]

Hmm.. i guess it depends on the kid(s) you're talking about. Every child is different.

[Paradox of Life]

Hmm.. i guess it depends on the kid(s) you're talking about. Every child is different.

^ That's true. I share a room with my brother because he's afraid of the dark (has some kind of sleeping disorder) and I don't mind. There's 2 other rooms in the house where I could say was my own room, but I don't because I spend most of the time in my brother's anyway.
How could a child get porn magazines? You have to subscribe for them and be 18 or older to subscribe for them. Maybe he could get it from a friend, but parents will find out sooner or later without having to come into their room. If it's an issue that concerns the law, you have a right to invade their privacy. If they were hiding guns in their closet and were about to go out and kill everybody in their school, you have a right to confiscate those things before anyone gets hurt.

[demolished]

^ That's true. I share a room with my brother because he's afraid of the dark (has some kind of sleeping disorder) and I don't mind. There's 2 other rooms in the house where I could say was my own room, but I don't because I spend most of the time in my brother's anyway.
How could a child get porn magazines? You have to subscribe for them and be 18 or older to subscribe for them. Maybe he could get it from a friend, but parents will find out sooner or later without having to come into their room. If it's an issue that concerns the law, you have a right to invade their privacy. If they were hiding guns in their closet and were about to go out and kill everybody in their school, you have a right to confiscate those things before anyone gets hurt.

um, a child can get money from parents w/out being asked,child asked money from kids to buy food when it's not true, get free magazines from internet(censorship), or you can get it from friends. they are many possibilities.

[Paradox of Life]

um, a child can get money from parents w/out being asked,child asked money from kids to buy food when it's not true, get free magazines from internet(censorship), or you can get it from friends. they are many possibilities.

Um, you pay for online porn magazines via Paypal or some other form of online payment. It's usually not something you mail in. And even if it is, they'll make you fill out forms that have information that only someone 18 or older would know. There are many possibilities, which is why I said that it is possible for them to get their hands on porn. And if they did, their parents would most likely find out without having to go into their room (siblings, confession, find it lying around in the open).

[demolished]

Um, you pay for online porn magazines via Paypal or some other form of online payment. It's usually not something you mail in. And even if it is, they'll make you fill out forms that have information that only someone 18 or older would know. There are many possibilities, which is why I said that it is possible for them to get their hands on porn. And if they did, their parents would most likely find out without having to go into their room (siblings, confession, find it lying around in the open).

Yes, thats the main point. Those kids's mind are still into porn thats why should parents determine whether their child should have its own bedroom.

[Paradox of Life]

Yes, thats the main point.  Those kids's mind are still into porn thats why should parents determine whether their child should have its own bedroom.

Sorry I actually don't know what having porn has anything to do with a bedroom, but I already said that it's pretty much impossible for a kid to order them himself. You don't have to own porn to know it's out there (and know what's in it), I mean you can go online and look at it without subscribing into anything, but that has nothing to do with this topic.

[demolished]

Sorry  I actually don't know what having porn has anything to do with a bedroom, but I already said that it's pretty much impossible for a kid to order them himself. You don't have to own porn to know it's out there (and know what's in it), I mean you can go online and look at it without subscribing into anything, but that has nothing to do with this topic. 

yeah.. should a child has their own room ? if you share roon w/ a siblings, if they caught you watching porn on the internet, they'll tell mommy and daddy on you.

OR

if a parent open your dooor and saw you watching it on the internet before you can exit.

[Paradox of Life]

yeah.. should a child has their own room ? if you share roon w/ a siblings, if they caught you watching porn on the internet, they'll tell mommy and daddy on you.

OR

if a parent open your dooor and saw you watching it on the internet before you can exit.

He's looking at porn. Big effing deal. He's going to at one point in his life. It's effing baby-making! Gawd, people make such a big deal about looking at porn. How is looking at porn going to affect anything in your LIFE? They'll find out sooner or later, I'll tell you that. Whether you're sharing a room or not. Sharing a room is an invasion of privacy and sometimes you just want to be alone and do what you want to do without the consent of your roomate.

[demolished]

He's looking at porn. Big effing deal. He's going to at one point in his life. It's effing baby-making! Gawd, people make such a big deal about looking at porn. How is looking at porn going to affect anything in your LIFE? They'll find out sooner or later, I'll tell you that. Whether you're sharing a room or not. Sharing a room is an invasion of privacy and sometimes you just want to be alone and do what you want to do without the consent of your roomate.

So, its okay for a child to keep on staring it front of the screen ? he is going to be waaaaaaaayy to horney .. maybe a stronger sick minded .. or .. obession ..

this thread isnt just about porn, its also about violents such as guns.