I need boy help!, My friend wont let me go out with a guy! |
I need boy help!, My friend wont let me go out with a guy! |
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![]() Azn at heart ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,772 ![]() |
My friend like three guys, I like one of them. She doesnt do anything about her crushes, and she told me not to date that guy, she told me to turn him down if he asks me out. what should I do if he does? I dont want to ruin our friendship, I know no boy is worth that but still, is she out of order, or am I?
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 ![]() |
She's totally out of line. There's a complete difference between situations in which she's in a relationship, and she doesn't want you to help her boyfriend cheat on her (which she shouldn't be worrying about in the first place) and a situation in which she likes THREE different boys, none of which she's garunteed to get, and tells you that you're not allowed to like him.
What if he likes you? Then she never had a chance with him in the first place. If he asks you out, you should go out with him. She may see it as you ruining a friendship, but if he asks you out before her, then he never wanted her as much as you anyways, and even if he ends up going out with her, he's still going to feel attraction for you. If she's stupid enough to try and limit your relationships with boys, then you don't need to try and heed her. |
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