What would you do?, If you guys were me, wat would u do? Options

[V_TEK]

Okay this may be a long story but...please take your time, your idea might help me...

I like this one girl ever since I was 14 and she was 12... Right now I am 17 and she is 15.
Last year I dated her but I could never get to see her because of her parents. They are very strick so then I hated it. I broke up with her. She left town for the summer. Around January, I hooked back up with her again, I thought she might have changed but I guessed not her parents are still the same.. Here are some things she did that makes me wanna break up...

1st - She told me that she loves me.. But she never see me.. Because of her parents? I don't think she like me as much as I like her. She loves me but she loves her parents more..

2nd - One night after i got home from work...she called me.. "hey what are u doing?" I said nothing, u should come over my place. She said "OK" Then she came but I notice that she was wearing a dress. I was like "did u just got home from a wedding or something?" She said "no, i just got home from prom." I was like WTF?! She said "my friend needed a date because his date was sick." "okay, and I'm your bf and u never tell me about it" "you were at work" she said. "you are the only girl in this world or something, why can't he choose someone else??"

3rd - I talk to her on the phone one time then her dad came into the room she hung up the phone. Her dad asked her who were u talking to? She said a friend name Trish. Trish is my Best friend's gf. So then one day Trish call to my gf's house to just wanna talk but my gf's mom picked up the phone and started to give her a lecture and say that "you can be bad but don't influence my daughter. She is too young to date..." Trish was mad...

4th - One day my GF called me to hang out i said yeah, but later my friends was feeling sad so then i want to hang out with him cuz he's down. I told her GF that but then she got mad at me. I told her let's hang out tomorrow but then she said "I have to stay home tomorrow. and I'm leaving to go out of town for 3 months on Sunday." I was like what the heck.. I'm sorry then.. Then the next day I saw getting out of her friend's car. I was like she had to stay home, huh?

Well those are some major things she did that make me mad/sad... What do you guys think? Is she too young to date? I mean I've like her for a while but she lies a lot and I don't like it.
I like her but her parents are in the way of us...I seriously like her a lot she is consider to be my first love...Everyday i think of her, I don't want to break up..

if I break up with her but with all of those years, it's hard to forget...
and another thing that make it so hard to let her go is that...I told myself that who ever i lost my virginity to, I will try to marry them. I lost mine to her and she did to me as well...

What do you guys think? please help me!!! thanks...

[CrazayChristian]

Well...


You seem to more of the problem here than she is. I agree with Sammi, she's doing alot just to be going out with you and you have to pull your wieght with the relationship.

Although she also has to understand, if you cancel to help a friend out then you cancelled to help a friend. I mean, you will have more chances to hang with her, but not very many to help out a friend in need who might really need it. (I don't know how BAD he needed it, otherwise there could have been an alternative.

She went with a FRIEND to the prom, no she's not the only girl in the world, but what if that was just a friend of hers and he went to her? She had nothing else to do, and it was just friends. You COULD have been notified, but what would the diffrence be? The only thing here would be jealousy.

You are just taking things and sort of blowing them out more than they really are. So, if you think you can control your thinking a little better, you know become just a little less paranoid, then you can stay with her. Otherwise it wouldn't be very healthy for you to stay with her and you should break up.