What would you do?, If you guys were me, wat would u do? |
What would you do?, If you guys were me, wat would u do? |
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![]() Hi, My Name is Evan ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786 ![]() |
Okay this may be a long story but...please take your time, your idea might help me...
I like this one girl ever since I was 14 and she was 12... Right now I am 17 and she is 15. Last year I dated her but I could never get to see her because of her parents. They are very strick so then I hated it. I broke up with her. She left town for the summer. Around January, I hooked back up with her again, I thought she might have changed but I guessed not her parents are still the same.. Here are some things she did that makes me wanna break up... 1st - She told me that she loves me.. But she never see me.. Because of her parents? I don't think she like me as much as I like her. She loves me but she loves her parents more.. 2nd - One night after i got home from work...she called me.. "hey what are u doing?" I said nothing, u should come over my place. She said "OK" Then she came but I notice that she was wearing a dress. I was like "did u just got home from a wedding or something?" She said "no, i just got home from prom." I was like WTF?! She said "my friend needed a date because his date was sick." "okay, and I'm your bf and u never tell me about it" "you were at work" she said. "you are the only girl in this world or something, why can't he choose someone else??" 3rd - I talk to her on the phone one time then her dad came into the room she hung up the phone. Her dad asked her who were u talking to? She said a friend name Trish. Trish is my Best friend's gf. So then one day Trish call to my gf's house to just wanna talk but my gf's mom picked up the phone and started to give her a lecture and say that "you can be bad but don't influence my daughter. She is too young to date..." Trish was mad... 4th - One day my GF called me to hang out i said yeah, but later my friends was feeling sad so then i want to hang out with him cuz he's down. I told her GF that but then she got mad at me. I told her let's hang out tomorrow but then she said "I have to stay home tomorrow. and I'm leaving to go out of town for 3 months on Sunday." I was like what the heck.. I'm sorry then.. Then the next day I saw getting out of her friend's car. I was like she had to stay home, huh? Well those are some major things she did that make me mad/sad... What do you guys think? Is she too young to date? I mean I've like her for a while but she lies a lot and I don't like it. I like her but her parents are in the way of us...I seriously like her a lot she is consider to be my first love...Everyday i think of her, I don't want to break up.. if I break up with her but with all of those years, it's hard to forget... and another thing that make it so hard to let her go is that...I told myself that who ever i lost my virginity to, I will try to marry them. I lost mine to her and she did to me as well... What do you guys think? please help me!!! thanks... ![]() |
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QUOTE 1st - She told me that she loves me.. But she never see me.. Because of her parents? I don't think she like me as much as I like her. She loves me but she loves her parents more.. Well, parents can be hell to live with. Trust me, I know the hell parents can give to you. Just give her a break, it's hard to hide things from your parents. Just wait until she becomes more independent and older, I'm pretty sure her parents will loosen up. Have you given her parents an excuse not to trust you? Since you are two years older, some parents might be reluctant to let their daughter date an older guy. They are probably afraid that you would be a negative influence on her or something. If you decide to stay in the relationship, just be respectful around her parents and they will probably start trusting you more. QUOTE 2nd - One night after i got home from work...she called me.. "hey what are u doing?" I said nothing, u should come over my place. She said "OK" Then she came but I notice that she was wearing a dress. I was like "did u just got home from a wedding or something?" She said "no, i just got home from prom." I was like WTF?! She said "my friend needed a date because his date was sick." "okay, and I'm your bf and u never tell me about it" "you were at work" she said. "you are the only girl in this world or something, why can't he choose someone else??" You should trust her more. I mean they were going out to prom as friends. I've gone out with my girl friends to dances alot, and it's no big deal because we usually hang out in groups. I doubt she wants to risk her relationship with you. Relax! QUOTE 3rd - I talk to her on the phone one time then her dad came into the room she hung up the phone. Her dad asked her who were u talking to? She said a friend name Trish. Trish is my Best friend's gf. So then one day Trish call to my gf's house to just wanna talk but my gf's mom picked up the phone and started to give her a lecture and say that "you can be bad but don't influence my daughter. She is too young to date..." Trish was mad... As I said before, some parents are really strict. Just wait and be patient. Her dad said "she is too young to date..." meaning that they still don't approve of her dating you yet. Once she gets older, they'll probably loosen up their grip. If she means alot to you, you should wait. If not, break up with her. QUOTE 4th - One day my GF called me to hang out i said yeah, but later my friends was feeling sad so then i want to hang out with him cuz he's down. I told her GF that but then she got mad at me. I told her let's hang out tomorrow but then she said "I have to stay home tomorrow. and I'm leaving to go out of town for 3 months on Sunday." I was like what the heck.. I'm sorry then.. Then the next day I saw getting out of her friend's car. I was like she had to stay home, huh? Well, that's a little suspicious. You should confront her. But yeah, you should never switch your plans when you planned to spend time with her in the first place. Never ever switch your plans unless your friend was dying or in the hospital. Overall, if you care about her and think about her everyday, it is wise to wait and see how the relationship goes. Good luck. |
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