dealing with single-ness, ..when all ur friends hav a bf/gf |
 Jun 12 2005, 02:16 AM
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 hicka bicka boo =P  Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,785  |
i dunno why but lately i've been feeling realli awkward about being around couples.
like today, i went to great america with my friends. n it ended up as 7 of us going. 4 girls n 3 guys. n those 3 guys n 3 grls r couples. so me, being the 4th grl, was alone. n it felt realli bad. esp when one couple kept making out every chance they get, even if it was a foot away from my face! i wanted to yell, get an effin' room! today was supposed to be a good day. one of my friends (that was there) is graduating n this is one of the last chances we'll get to hang out. so i tried to be happy, but i couldnt even ACT happy. i was just upset n i felt.. empty? im tired of being single. n i dunno how to deal with it. help? |
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Jun 17 2005, 02:11 AM
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i totally know how you feel. i mean im all for being independent (i mean i broke up with previous boyfriends because i wanted to be more independent) and not needing a boyfriend to be happy but there are those times when you just need the feeling of being "in love" or "in like"... i actually feel that way right now. whenever i hang out with my best friend her boyfriend comes around. dont get me wrong im totally cool with her boyfriend. were all 3 like great friends. he is bomb and im so happy she found a good boyfriend this time but when they start getting all lovey dovey i just get sort of sad and uncomfortable.
there is one guy ive had my eye on. he is friends with my best friends boyfriend and sort of with my best friend too. he actually said he really wants to hang out with me and my best friend and her boyfriend but theres one problem. i tend to go for the bad guys... hes one. id be trying to make plans with him right now but hes grounded for quite a while too (well it was quite a while i think its almost over). i dont know exactly when he gets ungrounded so i have to wait for him to call me but im so impatient. so no solution really works for me. 
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Eternally_L0st dealing with single-ness Jun 12 2005, 02:16 AM
K!$$ I know how you feel. That was me two months ago.
... Jun 12 2005, 02:23 AM EmmalieV Take it slow , youll find the one for you at the m... Jun 12 2005, 09:41 AM Loserwithstyle Don't feel pressured by people that have a boy... Jun 12 2005, 10:02 AM MyVermilionPlague Yeah, I know what you're saying. I felt like t... Jun 12 2005, 12:59 PM Se7eN_x I've been there like a few months ago. I... Jun 12 2005, 01:13 PM AngelicEyz00 Yes. I'd always feel like the third wheel with... Jun 12 2005, 01:14 PM BrandonSaunders I love it, yet I hate it.
Fresh out of a 2 year r... Jun 12 2005, 01:16 PM mzkandi I know the feeling but you know what, the waiting ... Jun 12 2005, 02:24 PM xlaydee_v im single too and sometimes i feel like that. the ... Jun 12 2005, 02:39 PM ichigofan being single is fun just be more open go out all s... Jun 12 2005, 03:54 PM lickthepavement yea it sucks being the only single person surround... Jun 12 2005, 09:52 PM Eternally_L0st thnx for the advice, you guyz. or grls. =) Jun 13 2005, 03:10 PM Evil_One1 Yeah, at my camp a lot of people talk about making... Jun 13 2005, 08:09 PM shawty_redd just wait on the right guy
but a guy doesn't m... Jun 13 2005, 08:22 PM Chii don't get a boyfriend just to have one please ... Jun 13 2005, 08:26 PM
Eternally_L0st QUOTE(chii @ Jun 13 2005, 6:26 PM)don't g... Jun 13 2005, 09:45 PM vietluvlygirl Girl, you don't know need any help! Don... Jun 13 2005, 08:33 PM Kristinaa Be busy in something..work out...school...etc.etc.... Jun 14 2005, 10:32 AM iheartsimba I know exactly what you mean...try to invite a cru... Jun 14 2005, 11:12 AM xMiZziexKiMx awww.... i know what you mean..... i'm pretty ... Jun 14 2005, 11:15 AM ROARxD thats mee (:
half of my friends have are going out... Jun 14 2005, 04:49 PM [x]Mari[x] Don't rush things... it just leads to mistakes... Jun 14 2005, 06:13 PM miss barnes girl i feel ya soo much on that. my one friend wou... Jun 14 2005, 06:22 PM xxaznxgurlxx its not always to be with someone. although you ca... Jun 14 2005, 06:24 PM DizzyDucky09 thts the same with me!! Everyone i see has... Jun 15 2005, 02:37 PM literemix24 Either talk to your friends and plan a get togethe... Jun 15 2005, 03:18 PM Diet Soda I used to feel like that.
Solution number ONE: G... Jun 15 2005, 08:01 PM funky_munky I kinda understand how you feel...
All the girls i... Jun 17 2005, 02:35 AM Boyfriendless OH MY GOD! WELCOME TO MY LIFE!
all my frie... Jun 18 2005, 08:37 PM jennypie You shouldn't have gone:p
Or bring along anot... Jun 18 2005, 08:44 PM Mith Like other people said, talk to your friends if it... Jun 18 2005, 11:59 PM vampireduster i hated that feeling with a passion. it sucked so ... Jun 19 2005, 02:48 AM xoStephie93 the answers easy: get a boyfriend. but dont get me... Jun 19 2005, 08:19 PM lilliannnn I'm ALWAYS a 3rd wheel with my friends, I hate... Jun 19 2005, 08:26 PM kill me please yup i know how that feels... it sucks more when ev... Jun 19 2005, 08:59 PM angelshortipnai ahhhhhhh i know EXACTLY how u feel! man 4 damn... Jun 19 2005, 10:48 PM |
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