I wanna make up..., ...But I don't wanna be friends Options

[[x]Mari[x]]

Okay, here's the story:

A few weeks ago I had an argument with my friend Valerie... She was mad because I was telling another friend, Steven, about how she had 3 boyfriends at one time. And I told Valerie, 'Well, I'm not denying it, but I just want you to know... I wasn't the only one, Angela was telling him the same things.'

Well, now Angela is mad at me, and she says that I was talking about her behind her back. I wasn't, really, I was just making a point, and I don't think she should act like Valerie's friend when she's also saying stuff about her. Anyway, I found something by Angela today saying how her true friends won't talk about her behind her back.

I feel bad that she thinks that, but here's the thing... Angela and I have been into so many arguements, I'm sick of it. To be honest, I don't want to be friends with her anymore. She makes me feel like I have to watch everything I do or she'll be mad at me. So basically, I want to tell her, 'I wasn't talking about you', but One: She won't listen. And two: That might lead to us making up and being friends again, which, quite frankly, I do not want.

I want to end the friendship, but I don't want us going into 8th grade still being angry at eachother. (I'm mad at her because she was calling me a slut, and she's mad at me, because I was "talking about her behind her back".)

If you don't understand, just say and I'll try to explain it better, but what should I do?

~[x]~

[topsyturvy]

^ You're right. Because to "make up" is to drop the argument and continue being friends. So.. your situation isn't exactly easy to deal with.

To tell the truth, you did kinda backstab Angela when you told Valerie that Angela was also talking behind her back. All you can do now is either wait for her anger to fade out or make up.