trust issues, how to deal with them |
 Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
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how do all of you deal with trust issues... im finding it hard to trust my girlfriend, the ont person who i know i should trust.. its just that ive been lied to by this person before.. she doesnt tell her parents te truth and i feel that if she cant tell them the truth what makes me think she is telling me the truth. i dont necesarily want to tell her that i dont trust her because we have already been at it about trust.. but i just find it hard to fully trust her at times...
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Jun 10 2005, 11:31 AM
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Trust is something that's easily broken and if she doesn't tell her parents the truth, then you're right...why should you be so easy to trust that she is telling you the truth?? Meh, talk to her about it...I know that you might not think it's a good idea but you might as well get over it. Trust is probably one of the most important thing when it comes to a relationship. So...if you feel you can't trust her....end the relationship and move on. It's fine to do that...find someone else who you won't doubt when it comes to telling you the truth. But if you're really intent about being in this relationship then you need to stress to her how important it is to you about her being truthful.
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SpedMonkee trust issues Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
smilz2dasun well, just because she lies to her parents doesn... Jun 7 2005, 09:38 PM dahding if she's lied to u before, she'll do it ag... Jun 7 2005, 10:12 PM mzkandi If your gut feeling is telling you that you cant t... Jun 7 2005, 10:15 PM
xlaydee_v QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 7 2005, 10:15 PM)If your ... Jun 10 2005, 08:04 PM waitwaitwait I hear ya. Jun 7 2005, 10:49 PM iNyCxShoRT Not really it could be a whole different thing, ju... Jun 7 2005, 10:51 PM _sarcastic_ i agree with hillary, she lies to her parents does... Jun 7 2005, 10:55 PM wokeupinadream I have severe trust issues myself. I tend to push ... Jun 7 2005, 10:57 PM K!$$ QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 8 2005, 11:15 AM)If your ... Jun 8 2005, 07:09 AM madchenallein Forget 'building' trust. Trust is earned.... Jun 8 2005, 09:49 AM |
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