trust issues, how to deal with them |
 Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
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how do all of you deal with trust issues... im finding it hard to trust my girlfriend, the ont person who i know i should trust.. its just that ive been lied to by this person before.. she doesnt tell her parents te truth and i feel that if she cant tell them the truth what makes me think she is telling me the truth. i dont necesarily want to tell her that i dont trust her because we have already been at it about trust.. but i just find it hard to fully trust her at times...
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Jun 8 2005, 09:49 AM
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Forget 'building' trust. Trust is earned. If she has prior instances of destroying your faith in her, she has to earn any trust you place in her. I agree that the nature of relationships affect the trust level. However, if she has no reason to lie to you, then she shouldn't be lying to you. What you have to determine is, is she trying to earn your trust so you two can have a stronger relationship, or is she trying to earn trust so she can mess around, not necessarily with another person, but with her own business that you don't approve of, without you checking up on her.
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SpedMonkee trust issues Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
smilz2dasun well, just because she lies to her parents doesn... Jun 7 2005, 09:38 PM dahding if she's lied to u before, she'll do it ag... Jun 7 2005, 10:12 PM mzkandi If your gut feeling is telling you that you cant t... Jun 7 2005, 10:15 PM
xlaydee_v QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 7 2005, 10:15 PM)If your ... Jun 10 2005, 08:04 PM waitwaitwait I hear ya. Jun 7 2005, 10:49 PM iNyCxShoRT Not really it could be a whole different thing, ju... Jun 7 2005, 10:51 PM _sarcastic_ i agree with hillary, she lies to her parents does... Jun 7 2005, 10:55 PM wokeupinadream I have severe trust issues myself. I tend to push ... Jun 7 2005, 10:57 PM K!$$ QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 8 2005, 11:15 AM)If your ... Jun 8 2005, 07:09 AM Shattered_Hope Trust is something that's easily broken and if... Jun 10 2005, 11:31 AM |
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