trust issues, how to deal with them |
 Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
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how do all of you deal with trust issues... im finding it hard to trust my girlfriend, the ont person who i know i should trust.. its just that ive been lied to by this person before.. she doesnt tell her parents te truth and i feel that if she cant tell them the truth what makes me think she is telling me the truth. i dont necesarily want to tell her that i dont trust her because we have already been at it about trust.. but i just find it hard to fully trust her at times...
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Jun 7 2005, 09:38 PM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
well, just because she lies to her parents doesn't necessarily mean she would lie to you. they're both very different types of relationships. i lie to my parents all the time to go out with my boyfriend, but i don't lie to my boyfriend.
i'm actually having trust issues with my boyfriend as well and it sucks. i can't trust him because i've been lied to by him also. my boyfriend knows i can't trust him but he's trying to do something about it and resolve this problem. i think you should talk to her. i know you don't want to but it's really what has to be done. if you don't talk to her about not being able to trust her then you can't resolve anything. good luck.. |
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SpedMonkee trust issues Jun 7 2005, 09:24 PM
dahding if she's lied to u before, she'll do it ag... Jun 7 2005, 10:12 PM mzkandi If your gut feeling is telling you that you cant t... Jun 7 2005, 10:15 PM
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