Sex and Health Quandary, Open relationship and risky behavior |
 Jun 6 2005, 02:54 AM
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Hey,
I'm in an open marriage. My husband has permission to play around and, he says I can too, but I don't (I used to, but lost interest, got blood tested, got a clean bill of health and I am now monogamous). We live temporarily in a foreign country and recently my husband had a spur of the moment encounter (vaginal intercourse) with a woman from this country who was menstruating at the time. He did not use a condom. That is against the guidlines of our agreement and he apologized for it. However, we know nothing about this woman other than she is not married and approximately 28 years old. We don't even know her last name. My question is, as his wife of 7 years, is it unreasonable to insist he get bloodwork done and not have sex with him until his bloodwork comes back clean? What should I do. If you are willing to reply honestly to this post, consider including your age in your post please, all opinions are welcome. Thanks. 
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Jun 6 2005, 11:49 AM
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Why're you in an open marriage? Too ugly? Bummer.
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Jun 6 2005, 10:35 PM
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QUOTE(waitwaitwait @ Jun 6 2005, 10:49 AM) Why're you in an open marriage? Too ugly? Bummer.  um that was very rude and uncalled for like mzkandi said *back to the topic* i really think your husband should get tested. especially if you do not know the woman and you are in a foreign country. better safe than sorry right? and it's a good thing you and your husband get tested every year.
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madchenallein Sex and Health Quandary Jun 6 2005, 02:54 AM
K!$$ Even though i'm clueless about half the things... Jun 6 2005, 03:00 AM
_sarcastic_ QUOTE(K!$$ @ Jun 6 2005, 3:00 A... Jun 6 2005, 06:16 AM madchenallein I don't believe that a commitment to only one ... Jun 6 2005, 08:13 AM lost [child] I may be young, 14,
but I would make him get teste... Jun 6 2005, 08:16 AM sammi rules you i'm 15. but don't take that into account..... Jun 6 2005, 10:04 AM Kristinaa definately get tested
QUOTEQUOTE(K!$... Jun 6 2005, 11:47 AM mzkandi QUOTE(waitwaitwait @ Jun 6 2005, 12:49 PM)Why... Jun 6 2005, 05:39 PM madchenallein I'm not asking your opinions on me having an o... Jun 6 2005, 04:50 PM madchenallein mz kandi, you rock. We do get tested every year. ... Jun 6 2005, 10:29 PM |
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