Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[ Options

[iheartjohn]

Okay, I'm sure most of you know that I have a four year old daughter, Geena.

Well, she has a best friend named Lindsay, and I don't mind her, but it's Lindsay's parents. Every time I set up a playdate for my daughter and Lindsay, I have to see her dad (Lindsay's mom works most of the day).

He's okay sometimes, but lately he's gotten really perverted and I feel REALLY uncomfortable around him. He makes uncomfortable remarks about my body, tries to touch me, etc.

One time I bent down to get Geena's toy and he tugged at my underwear and complimented me on it!

I've tried to talk to him many times about it, but he just ignores me. And I don't want to tell Lindsay's mom because she already dislikes me. (I overheard her call me a 'skank' because I had Geena at such a young age.)

But I don't want to make Geena stop hanging out with Lindsay, since she has such a great time with her, just because of me.

I'm not really sure what to do.

[yycleo]

Since the mother doesnt like u at the 1st place.
the results of telling her about it is
(1) she dislike u more, thinking u are lying
(2) she trust u and will divorce
(3) she doesnt trust u fully, thinking u r lying, but will also keep an eye on the father

the chance of 2) i think is very small
so i think there's no way u can get rid of the dad

so try speaking 2 her dad 1st and tell him wt u'll do if he continues
never be alone with him
try 2 be nice with her mom and tell her about it when u think (3) is more likely 2 happen then (1)
or try 2 make a hint or talk about it as if its just a joke in front of everyone
that way, her dad will notice ur gonna do something if he continues while her mom will just think ur joking

sorry 4 my bad english
really hope this will help