Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[ |
Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[ |
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yerp! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 ![]() |
Okay, I'm sure most of you know that I have a four year old daughter, Geena.
Well, she has a best friend named Lindsay, and I don't mind her, but it's Lindsay's parents. Every time I set up a playdate for my daughter and Lindsay, I have to see her dad (Lindsay's mom works most of the day). He's okay sometimes, but lately he's gotten really perverted and I feel REALLY uncomfortable around him. He makes uncomfortable remarks about my body, tries to touch me, etc. One time I bent down to get Geena's toy and he tugged at my underwear and complimented me on it! ![]() I've tried to talk to him many times about it, but he just ignores me. And I don't want to tell Lindsay's mom because she already dislikes me. (I overheard her call me a 'skank' because I had Geena at such a young age.) But I don't want to make Geena stop hanging out with Lindsay, since she has such a great time with her, just because of me. I'm not really sure what to do. ![]() |
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 ![]() |
Wow. That is incredibly inconvenient.
Originally I was going to suggest inviting your daughter's friend over to your house, but then I realized that you would either have to pick her up, or have her dropped off, which still puts you near this guy. However, you can file sexual harassment, and you can make sure that he knows you will if he continues. If you do decide to file sexual harassement, eventually, it might be a good idea to tell his wife first, because it would seem completely out of the blue, if you just out and filed sexual harassement w/o any warning. She might be even more inclined to think you made it up than she already is. If he continues this for too long, you should tell her whether she believes you or not. I suppose, just try your hardest to minimize your "parent-talk time" between pick-ups and drop-offs, though I'm not sure you should leave your daughter with a man like that (though I'm not assuming that you do, I'm simply pointing out it might not be a good idea). ----------- Edit: If his wife is resistant to what you have to say, tell her you're willing to try and prove it to her. One way or another, some form of proof may be useful, whether you're trying to convince her, or the authorities. |
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