Should I Stay True To Myself, or b the person they want me 2 b... |
 May 2 2005, 08:07 PM
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Okay...heres the thing....i'm in 8th grade and the year is comming to an end, and i dont know waht to do about next year...but it's kinda hard to explain
see...the year before (in 7th grade) i was totally into the whole pop punk scene and i loved to look like all the "kool punk rockers" i chopped my beautiful shoulder length brown hair off into my spikes and traded my belly shirts and hip huggers for baggy jeans and "bondage pants"...concert/band tees because my obbsesion...and i loved my style...i never called myself a punk, but every else did and they call started called me a poser...and it eventually got to me... so by the time 7th grade ended and 8th grade rolled around i kept the chains and black clothes in the closet and on the shevles! i became the person all the people wanted me to be and would accpet me for!! i was a cheerleader in 7th and 8th grade and i will be a cheerleader for my fresman year as well....but anyways....i put my old low risers back on and started acting like the "preppy popular cheerleader" wannabe that they thought was right for me to be....and i eventually got use to it and settled into it, not thinking of being ture to myself... I still kept my old pop punk albums...but i also started "busting a move" to the hip hop stuff all the other gurls listened to... another reason for all my change was that "punk" was now the "in thing" to be/do/ listen to...and i was sick of the preppy people stealing the image of what "punks" stood for. i saw it in all the preppy stores and more and more popular drama queens and quarterbacks made it look sooooo kool....it literally made me gag....so i figured i would stop being who i loved to be so that i wouldnt look like a follower or be blamed for being fake... so...now as my 8th grade year is comming to an end and my freshman year will start sooner than i know it...i'm torn between my duel personalites.... i dont know if i should go back to my pop punk roots or if i should continue to hide behind my image of the all american cheerleader...i really really really deep inside want to go back to the old heather who i really knew and wasnt afraid of being "all punked out"....yet then again, i dont want to be called another steriotype or a trader (i would loose alot of my friends to this...who i'm sure are only using me anyways) i know this sounds almost like i'm already decided what i want to do...but to tell you the truth i'm almost scared out of my mind....and i dont want to break the steriotypes more than i have to... theres a lot more to this than what i'm posting above....and i want to get some of your oppinions on what to do with my future.... it would be nice to get some posative and neggitive feedback from this... thanks so much for reading this all HeatherLee 
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May 2 2005, 08:14 PM
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Don't let other people's judgement sway you one way or the other. It's hard to show sa different side that people aren't used to seeing, but if that's the side you are comfortable with, don't fret. Remember, you can't satisfy everyone. So just for for making yourself happy. If trning back into the punk style is more comfortable, then do it. Who cares what everyone wants you to be? Ine the end, it's not their decision; it's yours. And you'll have to live with whatever you choose.
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Jun 5 2005, 02:44 AM
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QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ May 2 2005, 8:14 PM) Don't let other people's judgement sway you one way or the other. It's hard to show sa different side that people aren't used to seeing, but if that's the side you are comfortable with, don't fret. Remember, you can't satisfy everyone. So just for for making yourself happy. If trning back into the punk style is more comfortable, then do it. Who cares what everyone wants you to be? Ine the end, it's not their decision; it's yours. And you'll have to live with whatever you choose.  agreed. =) |
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still_surching Should I Stay True To Myself May 2 2005, 08:07 PM
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xlaydee_v QUOTE(Emmaliev @ May 2 2005, 8:14 PM)Well you... Jun 5 2005, 11:13 AM _sarcastic_ you should always wear what you feel most comforta... May 2 2005, 08:32 PM still_surching thanks os much for your opinions on my situation..... May 2 2005, 08:51 PM xldubaliciousx well if these people are your "friends" ... May 2 2005, 08:54 PM WrathOfOnigo Be who you want. Dressing punk doesn't make y... May 2 2005, 08:59 PM still_surching ture...but you dont know my "friends"...... May 2 2005, 09:05 PM Shortiiex being true to to yourself is important...but if yo... May 2 2005, 09:06 PM angel_revelation well honestly, those friends werent worth having i... May 2 2005, 09:10 PM Shattered_Hope I think you should always stay true to yourself. Y... May 2 2005, 11:16 PM dani41790 Be who you want to be. That's a part of being ... May 3 2005, 04:48 AM yanners be who you want to be.
think about it, why'd y... May 3 2005, 05:54 AM azndreamer QUOTE(x__forever @ May 3 2005, 5:54 AM)be who... Jun 4 2005, 04:21 PM vampireduster true to yourself May 3 2005, 06:39 AM DPSZod hahahaha a cheerleader/prep wearing punk/goth clot... May 3 2005, 12:36 PM mzkandi sterotypes will exist no matter what you choose. W... May 3 2005, 01:19 PM weirdness screw what everyone else says/thinks
dress whateve... May 3 2005, 04:12 PM iNyCxShoRT just be yourself, if being punk is what you do bet... May 3 2005, 05:39 PM iheartsimba You are completely following the labled! YOu s... May 3 2005, 05:44 PM ..:loveee.NuTTii First off-NO LABELS!!! And if you wan... May 3 2005, 05:49 PM still_surching thanks so much for all the feedback...honestly i d... May 3 2005, 05:49 PM kimmie2204 look.........u should always be true to yourself..... May 3 2005, 06:13 PM still_surching yeah...good point...i've even thought of that ... May 3 2005, 06:29 PM Guhk seems to me like your "true self" is jus... May 3 2005, 06:36 PM tmauze You can be some of both. It sounds like you like c... May 3 2005, 10:10 PM Yufoo First of all, don't be somebody that people wa... May 4 2005, 03:36 PM HoodieObsessed well, I'm not sure...if freinds are important ... May 4 2005, 04:11 PM Paradox of Life Stereotypes make it harder for everyone. I've ... May 4 2005, 04:49 PM steve_is_allxwant hey gurl. long post. but. ALWAYS st ay true to urs... Jun 3 2005, 05:50 AM DizzyDucky09 i think u should do watever makes u happy, no matt... Jun 3 2005, 11:25 AM dragyn I don't want to call you stupid, but your dile... Jun 3 2005, 03:33 PM iixSOOJINx just be yourself!
even though its hard.
if the... Jun 4 2005, 05:04 PM ROARxD go back to who you really want to be. Dont care of... Jun 5 2005, 08:30 AM jeSs1cA stay true to yourself. be who you want to be and d... Jun 5 2005, 01:37 PM |
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