I want to be his friend |
 Jun 3 2005, 08:38 PM
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There is this guy at my school. He is the type of person who is quiet if he doesn't care and loud around his friends. I have a slight crush on him and I would like to become friends with him. I'm not shy, and I'll make small conversation with him like, "hey, what's up?" I try to ask him about stuff that he likes. I talk to him, and he'll talk to me but he generally doesn't seem interested in what I have to say. At the talent show (we both performed) he seemed more open and what not, maybe because I was talking about his band with him.
I know that maybe I should just give up. If he doesn't like me maybe I should just stop trying. But people have always opened up to me. I don't have a hard time making friends so why is this so hard. Is it that he hates me, am I annoying, am I going about this the wrong way. I don't make stupid attempts like "Oh I love your binder." (yeah I know people who have used that excuse). I keep asking myself what I should do but I don't know anymore. That's why I am here. |
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Jun 4 2005, 01:02 PM
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I think maybe before you go and talk to him again, you should try and find out more about him maybe through his freinds, or relatives or w/e. try and find out about his interests anf things, think of a topic of conversation, then appproach him. if you just hang around him the whole time he might start to find you annoying. but definitely don't give up.
best of luck! xxx |
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Little Bird I want to be his friend Jun 3 2005, 08:38 PM
xcaitlinx you should just keep on talking to him and learn m... Jun 3 2005, 08:41 PM xlaydee_v get closer to him.. don't jsut give up like th... Jun 3 2005, 08:44 PM aera as long as you dont stalk him, its ok. try and mak... Jun 3 2005, 08:46 PM DaToNeViEtBoI916 keep with it. don't give up on this guy. try... Jun 3 2005, 11:32 PM angel_revelation i agree with akinachan and DaToNeViEtBoI916. or..... Jun 4 2005, 12:17 AM Frankie aww. maybe he just doesn't want a relationshi... Jun 4 2005, 12:48 PM gOODpIRATE i know that this might not help you much (or maybe... Jun 4 2005, 01:24 PM iixSOOJINx well, try to find out if he actually does have a p... Jun 4 2005, 04:41 PM iNyCxShoRT Don't give up. Its great that you grab at ever... Jun 4 2005, 04:44 PM dahding just get to know him better. common interests are ... Jun 4 2005, 06:36 PM enyceXaddiction i agree with iixSOOJINx just dont over talk yourse... Jun 5 2005, 12:12 AM Little Bird Thank you all for your help. Jun 7 2005, 05:44 PM Smilessss dont give up! keep on tryn! i knoe he will... Jun 8 2005, 02:26 PM
THiS__CHiCK Well if you really like him, you won't give up... Jun 9 2005, 08:49 PM |
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