My Mom Wants To Take Me To A Psychologist, But I Don't Want To Go Options

[*_Sara_*]

I'm really irritated. My parents got divorced just under a year ago and my mom has a boyfriend (HATE HATE HATE) and since they started going out me and my mom have gotten on really badly.
My mom went behind my back and booked an appointment at the psychologist in the for me and then one for her. I really don't want to go because I don't like to share my feelings, it makes me feel really crap and because I know my mom is going to try to force the psyhcologist to tell her what I said . I really don't wanna go and I've told her but she keeps saying I'm going whether I want to or not. I told her I was just gona sit there and not talk and she just said OK and didn't believe me.
I'm going to talk to my dad about it and try to get him to talk her out of it but knowing her she'll make up a lie. I really don't know what to do!
Sara
P.S. I'm not sure if this is in the right place. if it isn't please tell me, I only hang around here, in the girls locker.

[dragyn]

My mother has been trying to find a psychologist for me for almost a year. Luckily she hasn't found one, but I don't know what she thinks is wrong with me.

I don't know why your mother is forcing you to go either, but it makes it a lot easier on everyone if you just go peacefully, and explain that you don't want to be there and you don't plan on saying anything terribly insightful to your "problems." Make sure you explain nicely.

People will begin to react to you a lot better if you act nicer towards them. Be polite and all that. I'm not trying to say you're not polite, but your mother may back up some if you start responding more nicely to her when she's doing something mean or bitchy.