Do you think I'm stupid?, For.. This.. |
Do you think I'm stupid?, For.. This.. |
May 30 2005, 01:50 PM
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I have been friends with a guy since preschool. We pretty much grew up together. But you see I have this thing about people who smoke, where I really dislike them, and he does. And he's 13. So should I tell him to kick his habit, or it's over? or should I deal with it, even though it will really hurt my feelings that he's hurting himself?
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May 31 2005, 05:25 PM
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![]() RAWR. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
if he is your friend, and you disconnect yourself because of his habits, it will just drive him farther into them. If you truly care about this person, you should support them. Ask him not to smoke around you, but you have to remember that smoking is a very addictive habit, so threats like that wont stop him. he has to stop himself. Maybe talk to his parents...but try to be a good friend and respect his choices. stupid or not. and yeah, tell him I said hes stupid.
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stephenmatthewg92 Do you think I'm stupid? May 30 2005, 01:50 PM
aera ask him to stop. tell him the bad effects of smoki... May 30 2005, 01:56 PM
sharerol QUOTE(akinachan @ May 30 2005, 11:56 AM)ask h... May 30 2005, 01:59 PM
iwannakisshim just tell them how you feel. it won't be so ba... May 30 2005, 02:26 PM
dfly112 he'll notice eventually he'll get caught u... May 30 2005, 02:26 PM
stephenmatthewg92 omg thanx u guys 4 ur opinions now how do u sugge... May 30 2005, 02:28 PM
Cake. Call him up or meet him somewhere when he smokes a... May 30 2005, 03:15 PM
BrokenDream It's not good for a boy smoking at 13. That... May 30 2005, 03:41 PM
airam QUOTE(BrokenDream @ May 30 2005, 3:41 PM)It... May 31 2005, 09:12 PM
suddenly she didn't you pay attention in anti-drugs week at... May 30 2005, 03:46 PM
lil_gymnast6 Definatly tell him to stop. Gosh, 13 is way too yo... May 30 2005, 04:01 PM
BELLA_RAGAZZA maybe you can secretly take his cigarettes away fr... May 30 2005, 04:02 PM
Melissad1016 Hi Katie. You are in a tough situation. I think ... May 30 2005, 04:12 PM
Shattered_Hope I don't think you should just stop being his f... May 31 2005, 05:19 PM
iNyCxShoRT Tell him to kick the habit! It's not good ... May 31 2005, 09:22 PM
slipper wear a "smokers suck" tee. May 31 2005, 09:56 PM
Diet Soda I can totally relate to you
One of my guy-frie... Jun 3 2005, 08:55 PM
azn_shortie huh. that's sort of hard. when some people smo... Jun 3 2005, 11:14 PM
EmmalieV Its bad , but dont tell him what to do.
Hint it ... Jun 3 2005, 11:38 PM![]() ![]() |