Love At Our Age?, Young love |
Love At Our Age?, Young love |
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![]() tk prt yr hd ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 ![]() |
Do you believe in love at our age?Meaning for me around 14-15? And when I say love I mean REAL love. Like true love, not lust, infactuation or sex..I mean like love. Not "omg i think my new bf is cute hehehehehe!!111" Love isn't just a feeling or emotion...it's also going through trials and obstacles with someone and still holding on because you care so much about them. You care about them more than your own self and you can't get them off your mind...do you really think it can be real love? And do you think the feelings of the two people involved can last through everything and never ever fade away?
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,286 ![]() |
very debatable subject..
now that im older i think differently about it. you can have the right to love at any age.. but not everyone has the ability. love is incredibly powerful. powerful enough to destroy you or your partner. you do have to go through tough obstacles, tough enough to make u wanna give up but love give u the ability to carry on with the other cuz u care and u cuz u want to.. i agree with you.. its not only an emotion or feeling.. its beyond that kind of perspective trust me. when i was 14 i thought i fell in love with someone but only cuz he put ideas and words and feelings into my head to make me think i were in love, i was naive therefore easy to manipulate (yes my ex was horrible hehe) he's even pressure me into marrying him when we're older.. crazy freak lol but yeah i was terribly young, naive n i didnt even know who i was as a person. n love, even artificial love, can f*ck with ur head, can play games with you.. u have to know u love them.. n to know that u have to know who u are n how the world works. its terribly hard to explain =/ im not saying 14-15 yr olds are all immature lol not at all.. these days i find many young teenagers as mature n smart as i am.. i dunno im goin on too much bout ths subject and its mind twisting now ahah.. tc |
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QUOTE(babycarrot @ May 29 2005, 9:52 PM) when i was 14 i thought i fell in love with someone but only cuz he put ideas and words and feelings into my head to make me think i were in love, i was naive therefore easy to manipulate (yes my ex was horrible hehe) he's even pressure me into marrying him when we're older.. crazy freak lol but yeah i was terribly young, naive n i didnt even know who i was as a person. n love, even artificial love, can f*ck with ur head, can play games with you.. u have to know u love them.. n to know that u have to know who u are n how the world works. its terribly hard to explain =/ wow the exact same thing to me. It was my freshman year and even thou i was older he was WAY more mature and into diffrent things and he manipulated me so much, i didnt think i could live with out him. He would manipulate me and decieve me to do what he wanted, then make it think it was my fault. It was horrible. It got so bad my parents had to step up and do something, and i fought against that but now im so thankful they did. Now im with a guy that i truly love and that truly loves me. Im so happy and couldnt ask for more. We want to get married after highschool. Its so awsome. and i think if i wouldnt have gone through that other relationship i might not appreciate what i have now as much.
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aw im happy for ya =) yeah i wouldn't appreciate what i have going for me now if i didnt go through the past relatipnship myself either.. wish u a great future together! =)
QUOTE(strwbrysensatns @ May 30 2005, 6:32 PM) wow the exact same thing to me. It was my freshman year and even thou i was older he was WAY more mature and into diffrent things and he manipulated me so much, i didnt think i could live with out him. He would manipulate me and decieve me to do what he wanted, then make it think it was my fault. It was horrible. It got so bad my parents had to step up and do something, and i fought against that but now im so thankful they did. Now im with a guy that i truly love and that truly loves me. Im so happy and couldnt ask for more. We want to get married after highschool. Its so awsome. and i think if i wouldnt have gone through that other relationship i might not appreciate what i have now as much.
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