Have You Ever..., Been Like This Options

[automatikprinces...]

"Its Crazy,Tell Me How Come,Something I Really Want,Something I Love,Is Soo Bad For Me,I Can't Explain It,It's Like A Bad Habit,I Can't Shake It,Soo Crazy,Crazy,Crazy,I Can't Believe It,How I Need Him,He Makes A Diffrence!"
Lyrics From Ciara Feat. Cha Lu-It's Crazy

It Really Relates To My Situation,It's Soo Damn Difficult! After 4Years And A Half Relationship,And A Baby With Him,And It's Over..Have You Ever Felt Like You Wanted Someone SOOO MUCH! And You Can't Be With Him Because He's Untrustful And It's Already Too Late And He's Already Got Someone Else He's In Love With Already,Maybe He Was Never Really In Love With Me And I Was Just Playing A Fool's Game...Ugh,But After It's All Said And Done I Still Want Him Back It's Soo Difficult I Have No Clue What To Do When Someone I Want Sooo Bad! I Can't Have!I've Been Really Depressed Because Of Him! I Dropped Out Of School After Working Soo Hard To Raise My Baby And Him And I Left Everything I Had For Nothing He Doesn't Even Want To Be Our Baby's Dad! Im On Prescribed Zoloft 200MG I Hate My Life At This Point,Im Just Living To Feed And Raise My Babies And Be A Good Mommy I Never Had *sigh What Would You Guys Do?

[SimplicityGirl]

Sorry if this is a bit rude, but I checked on your profile and you're only 17. What were you thinking when you had the baby with him and dropped school? And seriously, what did you think you could achieve with the relationship you had with him? I mean, I'm not against people having boyfriends or girlfriends at a young age, but you know, maybe you should've thought it out before you went together with him.

And as for your situation...just forget about him and move on. You already dropped school and more or less dented your future by doing that and by staying in the relationship with him, you're not gonna get anywhere. I know I may sound a bit rude and uncaring, but I'm just pointing what must be pointed out. You're 17, and you really shouldn't be having kids and dropping school because of some guy. How are you going to support you and the baby on your own? Are your parents supportive of you? Think it through.

Even though, yes, I think that you have a right to be sad over this, I still think that he isn't worth your time. If you stick around with him, he's just gonna hurt you more than you are now. Just forgive, forget and move on with your life, and I hope that you think twice before you do another thing like that.

And I'm sorry if this post sounds really rude and inconsiderate, but I'm just stating my view.

[*mzkandi*]

Sorry if this is a bit rude, but I checked on your profile and you're only 17. What were you thinking when you had the baby with him and dropped school? And seriously, what did you think you could achieve with the relationship you had with him? I mean, I'm not against people having boyfriends or girlfriends at a young age, but you know, maybe you should've thought it out before you went together with him.

I understand you trying to be blunt but you could be a little bit more sensitive to her situation.

automatikprincess- I feel your pain. I have never been there personally but I know a few people who have. Its hard in general to let go of someone you have loved for many years but add on to the fact that you have a baby together would be 10 times as hard. Have you tried talking to anyonea? Close friends or relatives? They are to best for when you need a shoulder to cry on. Even though it doesnt seem like it noe, eventually it will pass.