is it too early to like someone else after a, break up? i m confused. Options

[Azn_Angel13]

after breaking up wif ur bf or gf? how long do u have to wait before ur able to like someone else. i've known pplz who broke up wif their bf of gf and liked someone else and asked them out. and i used to think they were backstabbers. but now i m a backstabber, cus i juss dumped mai bf a week ago and i m starting to like a close friend of mine ( i think i like him if not i think i like hanging out wif him alot and talking to him and watever). so is it too early or okay? even though i like this dude ( i think i do idk) i still think about mai old bf. i get jealous sometimes when i c other girls talk to him, but at the same time, i don't really care. so i m so confused! do i still want mai bf and using this new dude as like a subsitute or something? HELP!

[x shootingstar x]

yeah.. confusing isn't it? but i'm not in this situatoin..but i thought about it. i would be so confused if i was in that situation.

do you just feel attracted to this close friend of yours? do you really want a serious relationship with him? or do you just want someone to flirt around with and play around a lil bit. I know.. having a crush is sometimes fun.. or mostly fun. having a crush and flirting with ur crush and making ur crush likes you is just fun! but are you looking forward a serious relationship?

[Azn_Angel13]

yeah.. confusing isn't it? but i'm not in this situatoin..but i thought about it. i would be so confused if i was in that situation.

do you just feel attracted to this close friend of yours? do you really want a serious relationship with him? or do you just want someone to flirt around with and play around a lil bit. I know.. having a crush is sometimes fun.. or mostly fun. having a crush and flirting with ur crush and making ur crush likes you is just fun! but are you looking forward a serious relationship?

yeh that's wat i m saying. do i really like mai best friend rite now? cus i used to like him since 3rd grade and he knows i used to like him cus i told him. but i guess i juss luv flirting wif him a lot. and foolin around. maybe a hug here and there. i've nvr thought about having a relationship wif him. a hug and hanging out wif each other. is that like asking for a serious relationship? i m only in 7th grade so idk wat u call a serioius relationship. and itz sad, cus i don't think he feels the same way about me as i do about him. mai ex is starting to piss me off neways. him and his new attitude. that's why i dumped him fyi.