PaRaNoYeD AbOuT SeX?, BeInG PaRaNoYeD AnD NeEd AnSwErS? Options

[hotchocolate232]

I WaNt To HaVe SeX WiT My BoYfRiEnD AnD So DoEs He BuT, Im PaRaNoYeD AbOuT PuBeRtY AnD WhEtHeR He WiLL MoCk Me AbOuT HaViNg PuBiC HaIr BeCaUsE I DoN'T No WhEtHeR I HaVe An AvErAgE AmOuNt Of PuBiC HaIr Or NoT. PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE HeLp I DoNt No WoT Do!!!

[dragyn]

I kind of agree with thriftstoresecrets about shaving pubic hair. I have done it, but not because I felt obligated to do so, but because a)I wondered what it would look like and b) it was getting rather long, and occasionally, when it is long, it gets tugged on by your panties, and things like that, which can be extremely painful, and difficult to fix without being obvious in public.

About the sex. I hate to judge you based on the way you type, but I have to say I personally believe anyone who actually types like that outside of one word or a screenname is incredibly immature. Second, you should know about sex before you start doing it. It's mechanics, it's consequences, the whole sha-bang. Third, if you're going to have sex, you have to be ready for sex. Not the kind of ready where you say you're ready, but the kind of ready where you don't have to ask other people about it, you don't have doubts, you're simply ready, and there's nothing reasonable to stop you. Also, I HATE it when people say you're too young to have sex. You're ready when you're ready. Age has almost nothing to do with it. In fact, I think thriftstoresecrets said something about this too. Smart girl (guy? most likely girl), I've decided I like her (or possibly him).

Lastly, though I have no way of following this up, if I were to ever find out that you read this, and then "decided" you're ready for sex, I would be sorely dissapointed. You don't decide you're ready, you simply are.