my friend is pregnant |
my friend is pregnant |
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ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it? this is her btw: ![]() |
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well, i've just given birth. i'm 18 turning 19 and i can honestly say that my daughter is a handful. i'm thankful to have the support of my family and his. it definitely makes things easier, but not as easy as being baby-free. It's her choice, but I would choose to abort. I didn't have the guts to do it, but that's okay. I'm in love with my baby and it scares me to think about killing her.
Advice: Abort as soon as possible. Don't even wait till you're three months. It'll be less guilt on your conscience. That doesn't mean, however, that there won't be any guilt. Adoption is nearly impossible when you lay your eyes on your baby. If you can still go through wit it, you're either heartless or couragous. Keeping the baby, will suck mucho ass, but "in the end" it is a very rewarding experience. There's nothing like that bond you can feel with your baby when you're pregnant and afterwards too.. At the same time your friend will lose almost every ounce of freedom that she has left for the sake of her child, but somehow it won't matter. (I'm still working out "how" it won't matter. Somtimes I still cry because I lost my freedom at such a young age.) If your friend is going to go with abortion she should go for it. Don't let anyone else tell her otherwise, unless it's God because religious intervention shouldn't be messed with. |
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