my friend is pregnant Options

[ItzOnlySydney]

ok so my friend heather is about a month or two pregnant. and she keeps asking me what to do and i don't know what to tell her. the father says he wants her to keep it but she just turned 15 and she is such a pretty and smart girl and she has her whole life ahead of her. gosh she keeps asking me for advice and idk what to tell her because i've never been pregnant before so basically it all boils down to one question :
abortion, adoption, or keep it?

this is her btw:

[bbyunique]

my sister is 15 and pregnant but she's married...unfortunately. anyways, i think you should tell her what you told us about her being pretty, smart, and she has her whole life ahead. you should sit down with her and talk to her about it. make a chart of the pros and cons. tell her she has to make the decision alone. you also need to consider her parents reactions, etc. if she asks for your opinion, give it to her truthfully. you should tell her, just because her boyfriend wants her to keep it doesn't mean he's actually ready. im assuming he's young also. ask her is she ready, if she can't answer it at the top of her head, she's obviously not. i know my sister isn't at all. you can't skip your teen life and be a mother. you'll be a mother but when you get older, you want to be a teen again. in most cases, thats how it is.

[sweet_devil]

my sister is 15 and pregnant but she's married...unfortunately. anyways, i think you should tell her what you told us about her being pretty, smart, and she has her whole life ahead. you should sit down with her and talk to her about it.

i agree with telling her how great she is, it's her decision, but i think she should have the baby and then either but him/her up for adoption or have her parents raise him/her. that way she doens't have to take the responsiblities of a mother which she probably isn't ready for. also if she has to consider abortion since labour is painful...from wat i've heard...and at such a young age it might be traumatizing...