Hmm, guess I dont., Know her as well as i thought. Options

[MeanBastard]

Hmm, how do you guys/girls/shemales know when there is something wrong with a significant other? No facial expression, nice little facade. The significant other seems happy, but deep inside is distrought. How can you tell when someone is like this? Yeah, I need help. =/

Another thing, how exactly can you comfort someone when you don't know whats wrong. I know that one should be there and give her a shoulder to cry on or something. What else can I do? "It will be better soon." "Don't cry." Hah, oh man. Seriously, I don't know what to do. Nobody else can help me as I have asked. Any suggestions internet forumers?

[Azn_Angel13]

i don't know about ur significant other question but ur upset friend question, well sometime when someone is upset, they don't want everyone to know why they are upset. sometimes its something private ya know. if its ur close friend, then she would prolly tell u wats wrong. so if its someone u don't know really well, then maib u shouldn't like ask them wats wrong. the chances are that a ton of pple already asked the same question and that bugs them already. wat i do is offer them a tissue to dry up all their tears.